my best friend (a boy) is in love for me, i think...
what do I have to do??
do I have to say him that he's only a friend for me??
please help me!
byee
2007-10-09 04:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-10-09 04:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful in case you change your mind later (it's happened to me but once you turn a guy down they keep going). Tell him your not ready for a relationship right now.
This one's hard because if you tell him directly that you don't want to ruin the friendship or something like that he might get hurt/mad enough to not be your friend anymore. Also, you could eventually develop feelings for him later but like my friend some guys only take rejection once and don't let you change your mind at your own convenience, they've already been hurt and insulted enough by you (that's my experience). So it depends on the guy, maybe you should avoid saying anything at all about it. But if he's to the point of being obvious that he's attempting to make a move (like a kiss) then it's time to start asking him what he's doing. Or start rambling on and on about this terrible crush you have on some guy in your swim class or whatever class you know what I mean. That sometimes works too at making him back off a bit.
2007-10-09 04:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by DanceCat Squiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth, be like i only see you as a friend and nothing more at the moment. I'm going through the same thing. If you can't see yourself kissing or having a future with him just tell hime let's be friends for now.
2007-10-09 04:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by ms.sexcdyme1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and get it off your chest
or what you could do
is leave it
anddont say anything that would be best actually
he's probs not in love with you :L
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2007-10-09 04:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sure that he loves you.As you do not as yet fallen in love for him, you should continue your normal friendship. Some day if he expresses his love to you and you do not love him, you should make matters clear.
2007-10-09 04:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you and i would sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you.
2007-10-09 04:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by hippy1975chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to say whatever's true in your heart. x
2007-10-09 08:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Moondance™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth! ASAP!!
2007-10-09 06:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think ?? Better be sure............................ How do you feel abt him... make sure of that.... best friends makes the best partners...
2007-10-09 05:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by 777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋