if they had known the problems that were ahead of them because of an ex spouse? I am on one hand the luckiest lady in the world because of the man I am married to, however his ex is always causing problems and the children act out because of it.
2007-10-09 04:07:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have unfortunately been married twice; however, I can also say I have have been blessed to have been married twice...
whilst my first marriage didn't last, I will cherish the 21 years forever. There was love; there was more good than bad; and I lived, learned, and grew. There was a time when I could have never imagined being with anyone else; now I can't imagine life without the man I'm with now. We'll be married two years next month and I adore him.
You don't have to be married/divorced to have people cause problems in your life. We marry for a reason; and when we no longer have a reason to stay, the least we can take with us is the reason we were there in the first place.
2007-10-09 04:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew that our marriage was not going to last before I even met him. But, I also knew that I was still suppose to marry him. Maybe my life would have been different if I had not accepted his marriage proposal and went out with the medical student instead that seemed so interested in me. Maybe I would be a podiatrist right now with a home practice so that I could stay at home with our kids. I did not deserve someone like him. But, that is just day dreaming. The reality remains. My husband gives this pitiful excuse as to why I should not have accepted his marriage proposal. I just don't see it that way. I did what I was suppose to do. And now, our marriage is about to end in just a few weeks. But, if I had my life to live over again, I'd still marry him, knowing all that I know now, because I love him.
2007-10-09 04:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I envy you, and am happy for you that you found someone you truely love and consider yourself so lucky.
I would never have married my current spouse, I hope maybe if I find someone else that I'll feel the same way you do about them.
2007-10-09 04:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, I met him while i replace into 14, had a toddler with him, (i know, i know), and now we are nonetheless jointly 14 years later and have 5 young toddlers. =) I met him in 1995 and married him in 2000.. so married 9 years and jointly an entire of 14! wow, you have been with yours a protracted time! sturdy success!!
2016-11-07 19:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I married a great man...and I would totally marry him again in a heartbeat.
2007-10-09 04:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking if you shouldn't have we'll need more info. Did she not cause problems before you were married?
2007-10-09 04:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i could go back i would seriously have to think about it.
2007-10-09 04:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me
2007-10-09 04:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋