My husband has dreams about women every night but swears he dosn't want them some are sexual?

Question

Some people he knows and others he doesn't what could this mean

Answer 1

There is no way to control your dreams, they just happen, and no reason to feel jealous over them either.

Answer 2

Dreams are dreams and rarely can you control them. And even if you could wouldn't you want to dream about being in the locker room of the St. Louis Rams? LOL. Seriously, don't worry about it. If you DO worry then sometime tell him that you had a wild sex dream involving some hot movie star(s) and that it was hot but it was just a dream. He may be more open to talk about it if he feels that he may have some commanality with you in that area. Either way, I am sure that once you hear the dream and how it's just a male part of his brain hi-jacking his dreams you will feel better. But if he shows other signs of cheating then you may want to hire a private investigator.

Answer 3

Nothing, don't worry about it. He can't control what he dreams no more than you can. Just because he has dreams about other people doesn't mean or show how he feels for you. I am guilty of dreams of other people, some sexual and when I wake up I look at my husband and I know I love him. I don't know why I dream about things like that it just happens. I have never wanted or thought of cheating on him.

Don't stress about something as harmless as that, their are better things to worry about in a relationship.

Answer 4

So are you saying you have never fantasized about another man? Its human nature. But to make you feel more at ease- I read once that having sex in a dream often means that you want to be closer to someone in your life. Its the most extreme act of intimacy. But think about it. Can he really be held responsible for something that goes on in his subconsciene? Now when you say every night I dunno.But if it does happen every so often it could be his mind recollecting information from the day.For example, say some woman he works with talks to him about problems in her relationship. And then he goes to lunch and the guys are talking about guy things(including sex) or he comes home and watchs a movie and it reminds him of her situation..Then when he lays his head down to go to bed, his mind recollects all these events and scrambles them up and when they are put back together......... People cant be responsible for what they dream. If he is being honest with you about it, then he isnt hidding anything, its when he tries to lie about it then something isnt right.Be lucky he feels comfortable enough to talk to you about it.

Answer 5

I think most men dream and/or fantasize about other women. It doesn't mean they want to cheat on you. My guy does the same thing. Haven't you caught yourself dreaming or thinking about another man at times? I know I have. This is normal, if he told you then obviously he doesn't mind you knowing, which means he has no intentions of cheating. I hope this helps and good luck!

Answer 6

to be frank all men want multiple women on some level if they say they don't they are either lieing to them selves to you or are truly ignorant of what they want this comes from the way we evolved both men and women want to see their blood passed on and passed on in such away that it is likely to be passed on again and again for women this means getting one or two men

if one then that one would be provider parent and guardian of the children (and i don't mean guardian in the legal sense)
if two then one would be the provider and guardian (again in the sense of a protector not the legal sense) and another to provide strong genes to make the child have the best chances possible in the world

for men on the other hand this means something else entirely
for men they can sleep around and possibly get multiple women pregnant and hope that one or more of his children will survive and pass their genes on

of coarse all of the above is not taking into account modern society where men and women pretend to be above being motivated by such base instincts and to a large part such instincts are burried and trained out of peoples daily behavior but at some level it's still there in everyone

as long as he's not cheating on you or abuseing you then you are quite lucky to have found a good man to share your life with don't pester him over dreams caused by something he has no control over if you want to do something special to make him happy and your relationship is strong enough and you trust him enough find someone to have a 3sum with him with dispite anything he says he will like it

Answer 7

I think it is healthy to dream and fantasize about other people, as long as he is making love to you. Been with my guy for 20 years. We are fantastic together, many fantasies (my guys include The Rock, Ben Affleck, James Bond, to name a few) never cheated. Good luck.

Answer 8

It means he has a good imagination. Really, dreams of this type do not mean he wants someone else. I had a dream I had a colonoscopy. That doesn't mean I want one!
I also have sexual dreams and they don't mean I want to do someone else. I kinda look at them like freebies. I have the fun but none of the consequences!
If it bothers you, tell you husband to keep his dreams to himself. But be assured, it doesn't mean he wants someone else.

Answer 9

I have a re-occurring dream about having sex with an elder on an Amish colony.

My husband finds it hilarious.

You can't help what you dream and if you're jealous of his dreams, then you need help.

Answer 10

It means he's a normal man with normal sexual urges. He can't control his dreams, and aren't you encouraged that he voluntarily told you about something he needn't have just to be honest? I think you need to grow up and realise that we're all just animals responding to hormones.