2007-10-09 03:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by Key 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only if they have a kid
2007-10-09 03:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Depends?
Ex of how many years and why did they break up and what kind of "talk"?
I have recently got the contact info of my high school sweetheart (18 years ago) and we have e-mailed and caught up with each others lives! BUT we talk about our spouses and children AND my wife reads the e-mails (we share an e-mail NO private e-mails).
SO, who, where and why? It can be okay or it could cause trouble!
2007-10-09 03:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure that's fine. they are both adults and obviously he is your husband so there should be nothing to worry about. unless there are feelings that are still there. if you have good communication with your spouse, then he should have no problem answering whatever questions you have. it's not like you're insecure, but you would like to know if things are strictly platonic, unless he starts acting strange and starts saying and doing things he's never done before. trust him as he would you if the roles were reversed
2007-10-09 03:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Chipmunk74 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do they have a child together?If not then no I don't think it's right but if they have a child together they will always talk.Ask him how he feels about you talking to your ex-boyfriends!
2007-10-09 03:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the situation myself.Why is he talking to his ex?Was he talking to her still when you met him.Try talking to him about it if it bothers you.I wouldn't put up with that for long.
2007-10-09 03:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by luvmy3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
only if they have a kid together-- a bond that they have to talk--otherwise--- it depends... is it in passing..like they see each other on the street, and say...hey..whats up--whatcha been up to... blah blah blah.. or what are they discussing???
IF they are making an EFFORT to call each other on the phone to "talk' ... now..thats a problem!
2007-10-09 03:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with it. I'm friends with a couple of my exes.
As long as it's not super steamy conversation or anything..
2007-10-09 03:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
heck no! he's yours now! I mean its different if yall have a mutal friend whos a woman but i dont think thats right.
2007-10-09 03:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
No it's not right.
2007-10-09 03:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont keep friendships with the people ive slept with. i dont really feel its appropriate when you are married, so no i dont think that its right.
2007-10-09 03:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Only if you think it is totally innocent
2007-10-09 03:10:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋