I thought people in "marriage &divoice" know how to respect each other more.... that's why Im in this site .but It seems like some people are immuture and mean with each other.. please advise .?????....thks for your time...
2007-10-09 01:36:24 · 16 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people may seem mean but really their just giving u their opinion and u may not personally like what they have to say... I wouldn't let it bother u these people don't know u so whatever they say that u don't like thumbs down them and their answer goes away. Some are here to be immature but some are here to actually try and help pay attention to those trying and ignore the others, thats all u can really do.
Sry for any bad experiences u might have had!
2007-10-09 01:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by uloseallurmarbles 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I can say that most of the ppl I've dealt with on here are awesome, but yes there are the ones who are negative jerks. Be it may...they don't agree with the person asking questions, don't agree with the answers, or are even ignorant of what is being asked. I don't think they realize that they can actully do more harm than good to some ppl who are really trying to figure out things. Then you get the ones who give out thumbs down to everyones answer. It's called immaturity. I just hope that when a question is asked that the person asking (reads the advice) but does what is their best option/choice/decision and does not base every decision on our experiences/advice (or others lack of intelligence)
2007-10-09 01:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that they are safe behind their computer screens, that they are anonymous.
That idea (which is false, btw) makes people act differently than they would in real life.
Some people try their best - and you see those as the ones who are top contributors, and people with high point levels.
Those who are mean, well - thumb down and move on. They are really not worth your time.
You shouldn`t take them serious. I know not many here do.
2007-10-09 01:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We arent mean we're just annoyed , we get teenager's in here asking stupid question's about their b/f's or g/f's , women and men who ask questions that make absolutely NO sense and have little or NO information and we're expected to figure the puzzle out and give them good advice and then we get the men who act like toads asking ridiculous questions and women who come in making racist comments about their husband's obsession with coloured women , I mean come on we're entitled to an attitude occassionally.
I came in here to help people and maybe gain some understanding as to my problems and not feel like I am the only 1 going through them , and having female's come in and trying to justify cheating with married men or cheating on their husband's wether they are in Iraq or not it just bytes and yes we can choose to leave but why should we? So we get mean hoping they'll click on and quit their ridiculous behaviours but because they are just human they dont but hey we can dream right?.
2007-10-09 01:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Most of us don't sugar coat it.We are blunt and honest.Some are immuture and probably should not answere questions cause they have no clue and they just want to be heard and they are bored.It doesn't mean you have to read thier answere now does it.
2007-10-09 01:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people may appear mean because they don't say what you want to hear. Others don't care at all and just give a flippant answer even to a really serious question.
2007-10-09 01:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think because they give no thought to how the other person is feeling. They react on their feelings towards the question. Like cheaters you get a lot of people who have been cheated on and are still angry who will answer. Things like that......
Don't take it personally cause you have a question. Take the answers that apply to you and forget the rest.....good luck
2007-10-09 01:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
alot would answer better i think if the questions didnt appear to come from 5 year olds who should work half these things out without asking strangers.
2007-10-09 01:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by me m 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It takes all kinds to make the world go round. Even in the world of Y/A. Just be sure you aren't confusing meanest with brutal honesty.
2007-10-09 01:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Maybe those people are the one's who have marital problems and are asking the questions about divorce, since no one wants to be married to them. LOL
2007-10-09 01:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋