I have one little boy from a privious relationship, my current partner dosent have any. We've been trying for about a year now. I got pregnant but had a misscarriage in April. We were both absolutly devostated. We are still going strong but nothing seems to be happening. Has any one got any tips to give us the baby we're so desperate for???
2007-10-09 01:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
We tried to get pregnant for 20 months with our first and in the end used those ovulation test sticks. Turns out I wasn't ovulating much (I have PCOS) but we got one positive result and became pregnant as a result of the test. I can't recommend them highly enough.
I'd make sure your man is eating healthily with lots of fresh fruit and veg and doesn't smoke, drink etc.
Good luck!
2007-10-09 01:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ Jules ☼ 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry for you guys. It must have been very hard, and I am sure it is frustraring for both of you. But keep you head up. Pregnancy has a funny way of coming when everything is just right, a fine balance between everything. Make sure you are eating proper foods, do a lot of outdoor activities, DON'T stress getting pregnant, because you will not if thats all you think about ; try to have sex every night, or at least every other night, and stay in bed and cuddle afterwards, or go to sleep, just make sure you don't get up after you had sex.
Do this for A YEAR after your LAST PREGNANCY, that would be until next April, and only then you can ask a doctor for help. And remember : my husband and I had sex EVERY night. First baby, 3 months after wedding. Next one? 6 YEARS after ! No miscarriages in between, and we were both healthy. So you see, the body knows when AND IF you should have that baby ! :)
Keep hoping, and good luck to you both.
2007-10-09 01:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by semperfidesny 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible that she's just going through a growth spurt right now? She's due for one. I wouldn't be concerned about the change in routine yet. If she's hungry at midnight then feed her, and everyone can go back to sleep comfortably. Just make it as quick as possible and get her back down with minimal rocking and comforting. If this continues for more than another few days then I might start trying harder to elminate that midnight feeding and looking for reasons why she might be waking at that time. Babies don't just change their routines for no reason. Maybe a call to her pediatrician would be in order. Does she eat cereal or solids yet?
2016-05-19 22:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sympathy for your miscarriage.
Desperation is an absolute bastard, however, and as it causes certain tensions in a relationship, it can actually get in the way of achieving your goal. My advice? Stop trying. Relax. Stop thinking about what you want, think about what you already have - a happy relationship, a healthy child. Look at the good things that are there.
Before you know it - pop! - you're pregnant again. And this time, all will be well.
Good wishes to you and yours.
2007-10-09 01:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and stop trying so hard. My cousin and his wife tried to get pregnant for over a year. They had a miscarriage as well, and after the miscarriage, they decided to stop trying and wait another year or two since they were getting so stressed. Two months after they stopped having scheduled sex, they got pregnant and now have a beautiful baby girl. I've heard this same story time and again. I think if you begin to focus on the other things in life, and stress less about conceiving, it'll happen. Good Luck!!!
2007-10-09 01:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jen M 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Right, all my friend and family laugh at me for saying that this is how i got pregnant but I started to eat an apple each day and i am sure it was because of it. I was trying for a year and a half and after two months of apple eating voila, baby arrived.
i do think that diet is important. Try to eat your five a day and drink tons of water. Good luck X
2007-10-09 01:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm TTC my second with my husband at the moment, been trying since january and had a m/c in june. Everything is back to normal now and as it took us a year to fall with our daughter i'm not too panicked...yet!
i use a website called www.fertilityfriend.com you can chart your body temp here and work out when you're ovulating and work out when the best time for sex would be. also www.babycentre.co.uk is a great site for ttc.
good luck
2007-10-09 01:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im using my hb name i lost a baby 15 months ago there is alsorts things try out im on a web site called lams it a support group set up for peopl who have had miscarraiges they are there try to help people like our selves and all the people on there have been through what we have been through and they have a notice all about things u can try so give it a look over the site address is www.lamsupport.org so come and join if you do look for me my name is wotfifi just pm . im in a thread at the momnet on there called ttc
2007-10-09 01:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by fiona 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try to relax and enjoy the sex.Its the fastest way to get pregnant...
2007-10-09 01:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun i,m going to tell you like this it will come to you when its time just keep on trying and don't give up it took me 5 years ttc and i finally got that way so keep your hopes up
2007-10-09 01:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋