I try to improvise all in my life. I took my wife for better or for worse as I said the day of our marriage. Should I leave her now? Do I keep looking for female friends? I feel so young inside too! Soon this may change also.
2007-10-09 00:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
STRIP CLUBS,WHISKY AND HOOKERS.
2007-10-09 00:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live by "for better and for worse"???
If so you answered your question yourself. It is a horrible blow of fate to have a stroke. My mother had one.
Your wife needs you now to stand by her side and be strong for her. She would do the same for you! If you feel young, you got enough strength to support her and make her day. You will always be able to do that if you love her ... but then whyelse would you have gotten married to her.
So it´s not really something to look for NEW female companionship and make your wife feel like you need to replace what she can´t give you any more. It´s hard for her to live with the aftereffects of the stroke anyways (I don´t know how bad it is) but to know her husband is seeking another companionship will really really hurt her.
If you were in her shoes, would you support her in finding male companionship as you ar not as fit and everything as you were?
Try to find hobbies or get as much time as you can spare on what you enjoy doing already. Involve your wife in things even if she can´t participate very much in some things with regards to her physical condition. You might want to find support in a group of people who are in the same position which should help you to deal with it better and get new ideas on how to go about some aspects of your life now.
But please!!!, no other woman ...
2007-10-09 00:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bianca W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is just MY opinion.
I think you should stay with your wife. She is STILL your wife! You're still married to her, aren't you?
You promised out of great love to be with her no matter what! Unless your wife ain't living anymore, don't be (excuse me for the term) a pig and just walk out on her like that! - When she needs your love and support the most!
How would you feel like if you had a stroke and your wife walked out on you because she "wanted more male friends and feel so young inside"??? Think about it!
I'm sorry if I feel so strongly about this. It's just so sad to see people walk out on each other just because of things like that. Like marriage isn't special and scared anymore...just sad...Makes friends, find support but please, don't leave your wife. Don't cheat on her either.
Though she had a stroke, she still has feelings!
But the decision is still up to you. You just asked for my opinion by coming on Answers.
Good luck in making the right one! :)
2007-10-09 00:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by ohhcharm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took vows to be there for her in sickness and in health. Touch is a beautiful language. There is so much you can say. Right now, your major concern should be the health of your wife. Use some movies and masturbation to relieve the tension.
2007-10-09 00:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 11:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by kinnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask lot many open ended questions to your wife. Let her speak so much. Listen to her words. You will get so many clues if you are good an interpretation of unspoken words communicated with her talk.
2007-10-09 00:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by M T Kazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is life long...as you said for better or worse....you dont say how she is..can you communicate?.......how could you leave when she needs you most....yes you need some social outlet.....get yourself out ..a pastime...hobby...something you would enjoy...you need "me" time especially now.....look after yourself.....but dont leave her......remember you have to live with yourself..and your consicience.
2007-10-09 00:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by MaryB M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure about your story but it dosent seem fair to leave her...
can she not have sex any longer...thats bad but like you said you took her for better or worse...in sickness n in health...blah blah blah...
u said the vows...
if i knew more i'd give u advice....so no comment....
2007-10-09 00:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by julie60988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her she needs you more now then ever. and as for a companion use rose and her five sisters baby
2007-10-09 00:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by maraloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you thinking with your head or with your private parts if my husband is ill i will stay and take care of him what kind of husband are you
2007-10-09 00:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋