2007-10-09 00:22:09 · 32 answers · asked by blank 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
being married will help you in the long run, but go to a solicitor straight away. Dont waste time for replies on here.
2007-10-09 00:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Humza 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the US…
She can’t make you leave, but a judge can.
And IF she gets custody of the children AND she can afford to buy you out (pay you your part of the equity) and make the monthly payments on the home, she will probably be awarded the home in the final divorce decree (whoever has custody normally gets the home if they can afford it).
You need to talk to a local attorney.
By the way--leaving the home at her request is not considered abandonment. And you don’t get ‘everything' because she committed adultery--in most states adultery has NO effect on property division. You’re also not guarantee custody of the kids because she committed adultery--generally speaking, it will only come into play IF it had a direct affect on the children, such as her leaving small children unattended while she went off to have sex with her lover.
2007-10-09 01:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go live with whoever she wants.
Make it very clear that she is the cheating whore so she can leave, oh, and she does not get your children either. I would hope that you are firm in not letting your children live with a cheater. If you would give up your children that way, I would seriously question your own commitment.
I never understand why women think the house becomes theirs no matter what they do.
The classic move is to wait until she goes out to bang this guy and change the locks. Put her clothes in trash bags on the curb. This usually becomes the point where the reality of her trangressions really sets in.
2007-10-09 00:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cannot be forced out of the family home.Once you or your wife starts divorce procedure that's when it may get a little tricky. Since she's the one who wants to separate then she should be the one to leave unless her new man hasn't got room for her and your children. Go see an solicitor to find out your rights so she can't get one over you.!!
2007-10-09 00:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by nickkimills 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-06 08:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sadly you will have to leave. If your in the UK she can't actually move another man in the home for 6 months. If she does she will have to sell the house. If he moves in after that time then he will have to pay the mortgage payments. After your youngest is 16 she will have to sell or give you half the house value. Your will just need to pay support for your children
2007-10-09 02:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Vixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to leave. Leaving is up to you. However, during a separation, especially if she has someone else you two need to agree to work peacefully for the children's sakes. This is always a tough one. Seek advice from an attorney to learn about the laws in your area.
2007-10-09 00:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by renamed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can sense and empathise with your reluctance to move out, being that you were not the one that instigated disrupting your family. You also know that as soon as you do move out, you will have MUCH less contact with your children. I was like you, tolerating the ex-wife and her antics just so you can make sure the children are not being neglected. (Mine were, hence i won custody)
Its a difficult answer to give a hard and fast rule about this one. In the end you have to agree with her wishes otherwise she will pick up sticks and leave with your children..
2007-10-09 13:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by mybeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The state that I live in, if you were to leave, it would be considered abandonment and your wife could quite possibly get everything.
If you want the children, then fight for them, do not fall for the line that children are better off with their mothers, this is not always true.
Fathers have as much to give, sometimes more, just look at the crime rates of those with NO fathers. Just because SHE decided she wanted something different does NOT need to affect your relationship with the kids and you need them now as much as they need you.
2007-10-09 00:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jaye16 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first, if this guy knew you were married and went for your wife and knew your kids would suffer, then you need to make him pay. Bide your time, wait outside his place w/bat in hand and break a knee cap. YOu may end up getting divorced but you can't sit back and let someone threaten your family without making him pay.
2007-10-09 08:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't she move out and the kids stay with you. She's still married but she's committing adultery? wow, tell her to pack her bags and leave if she has a new man. If she wants a divorce. She has a lot of nerve. And you need to get her out of the house.
2007-10-09 02:55:31 · answer #11 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋