She loves me whn I'm there then she lies and tells everyone bad stuff about me. She said if i tell any of her stuff then she will tell the whole school lies! Help!!!
2007-10-08 23:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by Blonde_girl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
cmon...if she ever was your friend from the start, she wouldn't spread rumors about you...the first time she disrespected you, which she showed by spreading rumors about you, you're the victim...it wasn't your fault you met a slandering *****....
thing is, when you welcome her again with open arms and trust her again, and be even friends again....girl, you have serious issues.......you know what she's capable of doing, yet you still offer yourself to her as a friend....like, cmon......it's like giving yourself up to be shot, don't you think?
dear, a person who threatens to spread lies about you if you say anything about her is a selfish *****....she only wants you to listen to her...she wants the assurance that she can trust you, yet you know that you can never expect the same from her.....there's no friendship there, if you ask me.......people like that are not capable of being friends, real friends with anyone....
there are a lot of other people out there who may be good friends to you.....though, don't trust too easily....remember, during the first strike, it's not your fault.....but when you allow the same thing to happen again to you, that's just sheer bullshit......and you're really, really stupid if you do that......
2007-10-08 23:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by maldita_11189 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats not a friend...Why would u want to be her friend/stay friends? why dont u find a friend u can trust and talk to? Maybe she does it cause she's jealous,has nothing better to do.. I'd stop being her friend and dont tell anyone her stuff why go down to her level? if u dont like it being done to u dont do it to someone else since u know how it feels
2007-10-08 23:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not nice to you all the time then ask her why if she stops its fine but if she doesn't it will be hard just find some one else it is not worth being best friends with some one who does that so get someone else don't worry your other friends will support you so stand up for yourself and ask her whats the worst that can happen huh?BE BRAVE don't put up with it she is just using you and i am sorry if this upsets you but face up to the fact she is puting you down infront of people and making her look better so DON'T PUT UP WITH IT!!!!!!!!!1
2007-10-09 01:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by xannie222x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't call a person a "friend" if he/she is doing not so cool things behind your back. If a person treats you as a friend, if you have not so good characteristics/traits, that person will be straightforward with you. What I can suggest is you talk to your so-called friend and confront him/her.
2007-10-08 23:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding yourself. If she cared at all about you, she would not be spreading rumors about you at all. She is not your friend, and I would confront her and tell her that she needs to learn what true friendship means.
2007-10-08 23:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible i have had it done to me and it hurts really bad. i just told her that if she wanted to be friends with me to stop spreading rumours and if not i wanted out. She soon stopped with the rumours.
2007-10-09 01:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she is FRIEND ? Avoid her diplomatically. Show you are busy. When other peopel will see that only one person is talking and other one is quite. Belive it that other will favour you. God Bless You.
2007-10-08 23:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's two faced.
You will meet many girls like this in your lifetime. Eventually, you'll learn to drop them as friends.
2007-10-08 23:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase your best friend is your best enemy
2007-10-08 23:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by noy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋