Someone whos obsessed with having control/power over someone who wants nothing to do with them. Why cant they stop? Why would a person actively try to 'hurt' another who wants to move on?
2007-10-08 21:41:22 · 25 answers · asked by v 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This person has a confidence problem, low self-esteem, &/or was subjected to this as a child & knows no other way. Counseling might help, but they have to realize they have a problem & want to fix it. However, most don't & will use any means necessary to keep control over the other by illness, kids, threats, even setting the other person up in crimes, or as addicts, unfit parent, and ly about their personal life habits, etc. They don't quit until there is another victim to replace & then the insults & lies are used to entrap new victim & friends/family, if near by you. They do this to appear better or more important around others.
2007-10-08 21:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a control freak, these people derive pleasure from power/control over others, when they see they are losing power over someone they think their world is going to end it scares the hell out of them and they do anything they can to return to the status quo even trying to threaten/intimidate/hurt someone they "love"
2007-10-09 04:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Naveed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge psychosis. Some people are very vengeful. They cannot be satisfied until they feel they have accomplished the punishment they feel is justified against someone whom they percieve has wronged them. They are often diagnosed as sociopaths or labeled as "control freaks".
2007-10-09 04:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect this isn't the real question you want to ask. Do you really want to know how to get away? Change your phone number and email address and don't answer the door. Tear up letters unopened if they appear to be from this person, and get on with your life.
2007-10-09 04:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by No Longer Dizzy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, the world is full of sadists who take particular delight in hurting people. As long as Satan is alive he will always instigate people to be cruel.
2007-10-09 04:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Optimist E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He/She is like to be the master of the game to control everything. Life is a game. Do you want to play mind game with her?
2007-10-09 04:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tanyachanok T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Petty. Incompetent. Stalker. Psychopath. Jealous git. Underachiever. Back-of-or-your-brains-will-be-on-the-road-person.
Just turn around and threaten that person. Thump them if you have to. Why should you put up with their shite?
2007-10-09 04:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by sirinae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to avoid them or if you are that person enter your religious activities and get in touch with your God to know that there is more to life than being obsessed and trying to hurt themselves or others. Im surely your God will help you or them. :)
2007-10-09 04:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bryz 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like an abusive controlling situation and the need for a restraining order, and counseling.
2007-10-09 04:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "vain" person is someone all-over themself.
Dictator and bossy are other words.
Everyone is like this just ignore them. Don't let them get the best of you.
2007-10-09 04:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by m.n.m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋