slow
or should i go for a clod turkey
no answers like its good....please
2007-10-08 20:54:35 · 33 answers · asked by nitish 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
one way will be to set yourself boundries, like... decide on masturbating twice a day at fixed times, and give it no more than 30 minutes each time.
you do need to release that pressure.
2007-10-08 20:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by joe the man 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Masturbation is the stimulation of the sexual organs usually by a person himself, to obtain an orgasm.
One can stop masturbating if one wants to. Just as one can live without indulging in sex, one can also stop masturbating with some will power. However, since the activity has nothing to be ashamed of and most people do it, there is no scientific reason to discontinue it. If one still wishes to discontinue, then the sexual energy may need to be channelised into alternative physical activities.
Enjoy Life
2007-10-08 21:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can see why you would want to stop for a while. Some people might now feel that it feels as good as when you first started doing it. The more you masturbate the more relief you let out, so it might feel shorter or less intense.
I wouldn't suggest cold turkey. Just start every other day for a week, then twice a week, and so on until you feel it is right.
2007-10-08 20:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by kthnxpie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become an excessive consumer of alcohol, if you are of age of course, then your sex drive will be shot and you won't be able to get it up anyway.
However_1, when I was a practicing alche, I had no problem getting it up and getting it on with myself, or my wife.
However_2, when I was in treatment center #4, the majority of people trying to kick their addictions, mainly alcohol, reported not being able to get it up period.
However_3, It was only when I kicked the habit, after 20 odd years of drinking, that I found that I had lost my ability to get it up, not my sex drive though. Very frustrating. I was going to start drinking again just so I could get it up. But soon found out that taking pictures of me and the wife, and DL to my PC cured that problem. Although I had to learn to do it with my left hand, as my right hand had to control the mouse. Didn't take long at all though.
My doctor thought this unusual, as most times it works the other way around, with the sex drive thing. Hope this helps.
2007-10-08 21:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need a new hobby as your masturbation has become a habit.Try new things especially those that do not involve sex or suggest sexual activity. join a volunteers club or help out with projects in your community to take your mind off masturbation so that everytime you want to do it you can always involve yourself in something active and productive
2007-10-08 21:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that everytime you masturbate you completely forget who you are and what you stand for. Remember that everytime you do it you are turning your back on your friends, family, and those you fight for. Remember that the girl you are masturbating to is someone's mother or daughter. Remember that any pleasure you experience is merely temporary and that the shame is eternal. Lastly know how pathetic you look when you do so and how harmful it is to yourself physically and mentally.
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2007-10-08 22:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason you need to quit. If your masturbation is getting in the way of you ever day activities you might want to slow down, but masturbation is not going to harm you. If you need to slow down get yourself involved in some other activity to take up the time and divert your attention
2007-10-08 21:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely clod turkey.If you clod a turkey long enough you'll be too tired to do it.
2007-10-08 20:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem. I think it might help if you had a girlfriend (i'm assuming you're a dude.) If not, vice versa.
Don't download porn if you use it. That's like trying to lose weight and living in a donut shop. It doesn't Jive.
2007-10-08 20:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a life. do something useful and get busy, you're not doing anything the whole day that's why you keep masturbating. Best way is go to church and listen the sermon of the priest.
2007-10-08 21:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by vincant2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id cut down gradually...if you go cold turkey you'll find yourself just thinking about it all the time...and thats not good either
take it slowly. its not going to happen overnight. id fill in the time you usually take to ... with a new activity. keep yourself busy <-- thats the key
maybe going for a walk? calling a friend? ...probably not your best option but eating something good?
good luck my friend
glad youve seeked help :)
2007-10-08 20:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋