to make a long story shortI've noticed this since almost last year.I used to be shy when I was younger until i was 17 and I broke out of that.I've noticed that I changed about 9 or 10 months ago.maybe its cuz Im around my girlfriend too,much we live 2gteher.when i talk 2 my friends i dont even talk the way i normally do.they said i act kinda different but Im still cool.I also noticed for some reason Im getting less talkative with people too.I dont know why.Im bout to go back 2 college and Im nervous for some reason to go back.I had took 2 semesters off.
I have no idea where all this nervousness worrying and is coming from.I wasnt like this when i turned 17 and after and now Im 23.can anybody tell me what could be wrong with me
2007-10-08 17:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by rez k 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're growing up and going through different experiences. It takes a long time for most people to "find themself". Being nervous about school is normal too. Don't stress too much about not being yourself... you're changing, and everyone around you is changing too, whether you see it or not. Enjoy being 23, focus on the important things in your life, and be happy. :)
2007-10-08 17:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a decent person however you may Lack of basic balance.
Your letter reads as if you think too much about yourself and your reactions and your whatever.
Do more. Action specially help someone else.
Of course you are changing that is good! Change is inevitable unless you want to be a biggot stuck with your old ways.
Girlfriends helps us grow faster that our friends we have to or we lose them and many at times we do so anyways but there is more fish out in the sea.
Relax, smell the coffee pick a project, complete it and help others it works wonders.
live and let live
remember : Analysing darkness does not bring light.
2007-10-08 18:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need a change. School will provide that change. You could be just anxious about that. This anxiety isn't permanent. Take your mind off your worries by occupying your time with something in the meantime. Read a bunch of books and spend all your time doing that or start working out, go to the gym... something you always wanted to do, but were too scared to do it, or just never got around to it. See what happens.
2007-10-08 17:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound fine to me. Maybe you're just going through a passing phase of Insecurity- brought on by the fact that you're more AWARE of things in your life now that you're older. You should be alright once you get back into the "swing of things" at school... The "difference" between being 17 & 23- is a LOT more than 6 "years..."! Good luck at College! :)
2007-10-08 18:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, nothing is "wrong" with you. Just be yourself. If you feel chatty, fine, if you feel more quiet, fine too.
People go through different periods in life where they feel different ways. Sometimes we are more confident and talkitive, sometimes, we are more shy and quiet. All depends on the situation and how you feel at the time.
Based on my experience, (I'm 30), when I was younger, I was very very shy, quiet. Nowadays, I am super assertive and I talk alot more. I feel good with myself and I talk to people in a way I would never have done several years ago.
Don't worry about it. If you feel like talking, do, if not; just don't. If people say something to you, just say, "I like to listen", or if someone asks you an obnoxious question you don't want to answer, smile and say, "why do you want to know"?
Hope this helps.
2007-10-08 17:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Madame Morticia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anxiety and it can come on at any time. i am so shy that sometimes it is dibilitation but as you can see online, i am a social butterfly who will give it to yu straight. a few drinks though and i might be fine. but alcohol is not good and for you try some PAxil. some pills can help with a level of anxiety now wether it is depression that's another thing. if your moody, sad, and your doing things you wouldn't normally do, or crying, anger, and eating and drinking a lot and doing drugs and getting into fights and or sleeping a lot...that is some depression...so keep a journal and then maybe it's time to talk to your parents or a conselor.
2007-10-08 17:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first u need to be yourself, and dont act diferent with different people. maybe its because since you have already graduated high school all you want to do is have fun(im assuming) and at 17 u have fun, but at 23 i am assuming that the studies are stressing you out a bit, and not getting enough time to talk to people. hope i helped....
2007-10-08 17:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The process of growing up and maturity has a price, perhaps what you were before you don't like anymore that you are acting different, as well all changes or unknown makes us feel nervous, that is normal.
I don't think there's something wrong with you.
2007-10-08 17:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be nothing. Just in case you should talk to your doctor for a physical or just talk.
Sometimes, studing to hard or not getting enough rest or you feel, you need to impress you friends, or your proffessor, can problems, too!
Other than that... you'r at the time in your life when you will change many times. Be more concerned, when you stop!
Good Luck!
2007-10-08 18:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stuck in a rut! Or you are maturing, it happens to most everybody! Let me tell you it doesn't get any better the older you get. Soon you will be so numb, nothing will surprise you anymore! Bills, responsibility, fear of the future & the state of things in the world can get the best of you. Please relax and try to enjoy it now while you still can!
2007-10-08 17:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋