2007-10-08 16:49:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You have two options...
1. Put the baby up for adoption. You can get started on that right now so that you know as soon as he/she is born, there will be a family waiting to love him/her.
2. Keep your baby and do everything you can to give him/her a happy, loving home and a good life.
2007-10-08 17:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♪BandMom♪♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant can be a scary thing, particularly when you did not plan on it.
However, your five month pregnancy as already resulted in a fetus which actually looks like a new born baby, but only much smaller. Fetuses at this stage can do many things newborns can, including feel pain.
I want you to take a look at this abortion site and then seriously think about this decision. If I were you, keep the pregnancy, but work with an agency to put it up for adoption. Save its life, don't destroy it because you are afraid or don't want it.
http://www.100abortionpictures.com/Aborted_Baby_Pictures_Abortion_Photos/
2007-10-08 17:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Firestorm 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm, what a dilema...
you cant get an abortion, its against the law at
your term. beleive it or not I was 28 weeks along
when I felt my whole body rock like I was on a cruise
I was so shocked, I felt it again and got off the couch
and went to get a preg test and it was positive..
talk about major shock..I was single, was working 2 jobs
had lost some weight, then felt like I had gained a few in my belly...duh...I went to a preg. clinic, the kind that can do abortions, cause that was my intention, and was told no way
here is a pic of your baby, fully formed, heartbeat and everything. IF you cant see yourself having it, the nurse pract.
gave me a business card for an attorney who handles adoptions. I went as far as calling him, but then I told my family
since I was 39, never married, no kids, my family rallied around me, supported me and its been 2 years since she was born..SHE IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER experienced. PLease try to keep your baby, but know that if you cant there is someone out there who can love your baby just as much, just be brave and do what you NEED to do.
2007-10-08 17:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are not very many doctor's in the US who do second trimester abortions except in rare cases. Talk to your doctor, but be prepared to hear that you'll be carrying to term. Also, if that's what you DO hear don't try to hurt yourself in hopes of causing a spontaneous abortion because: 1. It most likely won't work and 2. you may injure yourself internally and still be pregnant, but this time you'll be miserable. Stay away from the herbal abortifacients; there's too many risk factors involved. You may want to look for a Planned Parenthood if you feel your doctor is giving you the runaround; they have lots of great advice and can help you find a solution.
2007-10-08 16:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by clairdeluny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't! This question, even as a joke is truly hurtful to people like me that have lost a VERY WANTED baby at 5 months gestation. You need to get off the computer and get a life!
2007-10-08 17:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is a good website to go to and ask questions and get answers from professionals. Don't try to do anything yourself. You could wind up hurting yourself or having a baby with problems. Consider adoption. Many people out there would love to care for the baby. Please check out the website and talk to someone who can help.
http://www.pregnancycenters.org/pregnant.html
2007-10-08 16:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by jbird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant and why would you want to kill your own child???? that baby has a beating heart and has fingers and toes and hands he/she can suck , move around and hear things outside the womb you wouldnt kill your baby outside of the womb would you?? so why would you kill your baby while he/she is in the womb?? give that poor baby a chance at a life and if you dont want him/her give him or her up for adoption there are very nice couples out there who would love to have a baby and would give yours a very good and loving life
2007-10-08 17:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see an obgyn to make sure that everything is ok with the baby and you also, relying on the fact that the baby is moving and you are eating the right things is not enough.
2016-04-07 22:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO PLEASE DON'T DO IT YOU WILL REGRET IT SOON AFTER HAVING A BABY IS SUCH A WONDERFUL THING DON'T TAKE A WAY THE BABY'S LIFE IF YOU DO U WILL BECOME A MURDERER!!! THERE ARE OTHER WAYS PUT THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION BECAUSE IF DON'T WANT THE BABY I KNOW SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO WOULD BE DIEING TO HAVE THAT BABY
2007-10-08 17:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by stuffybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call planned parenthood asap. do not waste another day as these types of abortions are only performed up to a certain time and it is different from one state to the next. In california, up to 24 wk is legal but not easy to find someone to do it
2007-10-08 16:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋