I know I know...all men should be reviewed carefully...and i do! I swear it! But in a country like America which holds the white man high...I am a bit suspicious as to this guy whom I'm really attracted to is really flirty with me...thing is, he's a lawyer, good looking, fun, etc...and I'm a half black half azn chick...I'm not sure if he's taking me seriously or if he just wants to try out 'exoticness.' I do appreciate the attention and I am really starting to like him, but is he trust worthy?
2007-10-08 14:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Where are you coming into contact with him, at work, at the bar, at the laundramat? Your comment "in a country like America which holds the white man high" SAY WHAT???
Whatever happens, he knows all the tricks because he is an educated person in Law. If you hold the white man high, you are sunk. I believe you are too naive to hook up with this guy. When you can place your own self as high or higher than the white man, you might be ready to take this type of guy on. Until then, stay clear.
2007-10-08 14:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white and will admit that alot of younger white guys are into experimenting with exoticness like you mentioned. I think we need more info to really tell
2007-10-08 22:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Trojan8408 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any other racially-based question, the answer to this is simple: There are bad guys and good guys in all flavors, sizes and shapes. Judge him for himself, and go with your gut instinct. Watch how he treats other people around him. There's no one lower than the guy who treats his date well, but yells at the waiter, belittles his secretary, and treats others he perceives as "lower than himself" like dirt. He is likely to turn, at some point, on the date too. Good luck!
2007-10-08 21:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by oldernwiser 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'd feel bad if someone didn't trust you because of your race, wouldn't you? So it's wrong to mistrust him simply because he's white. Is he nice to you? Does he make comments that make you uncomfortable? Does he treat other people well? If so, continue to get to know him and maybe get his number, go out with him. But don't write him off just because he's white, that isn't fair.
2007-10-08 21:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but if your interested, let him take you out a few times and buy you dinner,
and if you really aren't interested because you think he might be shallow, let it fizzle out.
2007-10-08 21:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Buzz B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is up to the individual
2007-10-08 21:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to find out for yourself.
2007-10-08 22:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by jan c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no lawyer is to be trusted.
2007-10-08 21:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by bee p 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How would we know this? I don't know him so I can not know if is trustworthy.
2007-10-08 21:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by punch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋