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I had unprotected sex with my bf (yes i know STUPID) but i've been worried that i could be pregnant... I still have about 2 weeks until my first missed period but I've been getting sick to my stomach (no vomiting though), always thirsty, very tired, unable to sleep at night, and I started gaining weight when i started the pill but i'm scared that part of that could be from being pregnant. (you will notice that said unprotected sex. This is correct. I forgot to take the pill the night before intercourse.) if anyone knows any signs that i should watch out for please let me know and if there is anything that i could do to prevent the pregnancy please let me be aware of this because i'm not ready for a baby. (I'm still in school and am financially unable to have a child. not to mention my parents will disown me and my bf, even tho my mom put me on the pill incase i would have sex) It's really stressing me out and if anyone can help please do so... thank you very much.

2007-10-08 13:57:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Listen. your making yourself very nervous. the same thing happened to me and i made myself so nervous and stressed i missed my period, and got even more nervous. theres no way to tell b4 hand. and this sick and weight gain ur feeling, wouldnt happen for MONTHS if u were pregnant, its you being paranoid. FOR FUTURE REFERENCE. if it ever happens again, u have unprotected sex, IMMEDIATLY go to planned parent hood and get the morning after pill (72 hrs) its tha safest smartest thing to do. take a test in about a week, usually some will say 7 days b4 ur missed period. otherwise jsut wait it out i hope everything turns out alright. but just calm down.

2007-10-08 14:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

there is a chance that you are and there is a chance that you aren't. if you took two pills the day after you forgot to take the pill, that should have made up for it. a few things that could help you...
1.taking a home pregnancy test so you know one way or another (take more than one (3-4) to be sure), but remember that it could be too early to tell.
2. taking a "morning after pill." go to a pharmacy and ask for that. you can buy them over the counter. that's supposed to prevent one from getting pregnant if they have unprotected sex (do #1 first). i'm not sure if this will work because of timing (i don't know how long ago this all happened).
3. see a doctor. whatever you say/whatever is figured out through testing...will stay between you and your doctor.

things to keep in mind:
*you could be gaining weight because you are so stressed! and most girls do gain wait when they start the pill.
*the longer you have been on the pill-the lesser chance you have for being pregnant.
*don't go through this alone. tell a friend you can trust, talk to your boyfriend about it, or your mom... you need someone to be there for you, to think clearly when you can't, and to hold your hand. honestly, i think you should tell your mom your worries and what you're going through. she can help. if you really "can't" or don't want to then do go through this with someone who loves you, who you trust.

i don't think your parents will disown you. have a little faith in them - they love you. if you are pregnant...it will be hard for you and them but i am sure they will be there for you!
whatever happens...it'll be ok.

2007-10-08 14:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When i see a young pregnant girl i do not judge unless i know the circumstances. She could have been raped. Or maybe if she wasnt she could have been in love with a boyfriend of five years. Lets say it was a beloved boyfriend if they had been together at least a year and a half and did what they did for the right reasons i see no reason to judge. They didnt do it on purpose. There are billions of other teens doing the same things they just dont happen to get pregnant. There are adults who have one night stands all the time so why is that okay but a teen who just so happens to get pregnant with her bf of 4 months is not okay? I guess what im trying to say is a pregnant teenager shouldnt be judged unless you know all the details.

2016-05-19 02:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by maegan 3 · 0 0

Of course, honey, there's always the chance you are pregnant when you forget your pill, but from what you've described, it seems unlikely that you would be. I wouldn't think that all of those symptoms would happen to early on (but I could be wrong). Could it be that you're really worried and exhausting yourself thinking about it? That can also contribute to a late period. You could take one of those early detection pregnancy tests, but it's usually more effective to wait until you've missed one period. This used to happen to me all the time ... thinking I was pregnant, and I'd get myself all worked up about it, only to start my period when the times came. Relax, time will tell in 2 weeks, when you can take a home pregnancy test.

And remember ... there are tons of options out there for you if you are, in fact, pregnant.

2007-10-08 14:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by boo_boo_flower 2 · 0 0

When did you have sex? If you are still two weeks from your period there is NO WAY that the symptoms you are experiencing are from pregnancy. It's much too soon to be experiencing any symptoms. I really doubt you are pregnant. It's very, very unlikely.

But if you're financially unable to have children, are hiding this from your parents, and are this paranoid about pregnancy, you might want to reconsider whether or not having sex is the right choice.

2007-10-08 14:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 0 0

Pregnant or not pregnant you have a great sin because you had an adultery which is prohibited by God..Please ask for God's forgiveness.Indication of pregnancy is not the same among women.You must consult to your doctor and do not do again such stupid action.The loser will be the woman if you are pregnant without married.The winner will be always your boy friend.Protective or unprotective intercourse for un married couples is not allowed..If you have a high desire for sex please get married with your boy friend and he will be responsible for your cost of living .But in line with islamic teaching your desire can be controlled by fasting and make a busy activities of your hobby..

2007-10-08 14:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

Well it's possible, but could be side effects from the pill. It also could be that you are stressing about it too much, which is why you can't sleep, feel sick etc. If you're under alot of stress, it could also make your period late. So stop stressing!

2007-10-08 14:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's really unlikely, but if it was in the last day or so, take another birth control pill. It's completely safe and recommended to do in just your case. If it's been more than four days ago since the incident, just hope for the best, but don't stress out too much. , but don't take your chances again.

2007-10-08 14:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by silvrbreeze 3 · 0 1

well it could be possible, but highly unlikely. Some of those side effects could be from your BC pills. The only thing I could tell you is to wait until you miss your period then take a test. but i don't think you are.

2007-10-08 14:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Erica M 3 · 0 0

I would say it is most likey your nerves making you feel all of that this early on. You are so stressed about being prego, you start to get sick. Don't actually worry until you miss your period.

2007-10-08 14:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by metalbunny1273 3 · 0 0

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