Me and my friend Jessica hug eachother a lot, she is bi and we even snuggled in bed ( with clothes on of course ) but we didn't think if it as a relatoinship way just a friend huging friend way. I really like hugging her and I didn't want to let go..does that mean I'm bi?
2007-10-08 13:37:45 · 23 answers · asked by Another Emily 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
could be, your sexuality is about your feelings along with your physical attraction. it sounds like your young and experimenting, which is ok but BE SAFE. use protection no matter who your with, be honest with your self and give it time. you have your whole life to find someone. peace!
2007-10-08 13:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This question is somewhat hard for me to answer - as I am gay (Not attracted to women at all.) However, when I was in middle school a good friend of mine (I was out by this point) came to me and he was super confused. He told me that he was sexually attracted to both guys and girls, but only saw himself having a relationship with men. Now, often times people who identify themselves as 'bi' either feel sexually attracted to either men or women and emotionally attracted to the other. Now this isn't always the case - it just seems to be what I have noticed in bi guys that I know.
Even if you feel an attraction to this girl - that doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian or even bisexual, but you might be. We can't really answer this question for you - only you can do that. You should just ask yourself - who do you see yourself being with (But when you do this - you can't let your answer be influenced by outer things, for example you can't think about which is more accepted or more normal - only what feels right to you.)
Hope that helps!
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2007-10-08 20:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Controversial 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not necessarily, not wanting to let go could just mean you love her as a friend.
Do you also feel attracted to her, does hugging her bring about feelings of attraction and (sexual) desire towards her?
Plus even if you do feel all these things, it still doesn't make you bi, it could be a crush, or it could be that you are sexually curious and want to try things out (if this is the case, don't bee too freaked out by it, it's fairly common, people can especially experience this during puberty, or after a major, life-alterning event, or during or right after periods of great stress).
I think you are only bi if you continually have these kinds of feelings towards both sexes over a longer period of time.
2007-10-08 20:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be bi-curious. I officially realized that I was gay when I was 12. A friend of mine admitted to being gay, and then I knew: so was I. Also, there was a girl that I loved as a friend and once I even thought about being gay I knew that I loved her.
I just thought those feelings meant I was bisexual, but then after a while I knew I was just lesbian. the feelings i had had for boys in the past were not nearly as strong as the feelings I had for girls now.
If your friend is bi, I say GO FOR IT.
2007-10-08 20:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude me and My friends do that all the time we aint bi
and huging is normal
and my friend is bi and
he just turned bi it depends on your hurmones and if you find your self wanting a kiss just shut up and kiss her there ant nothing wrong with being bi
2007-10-08 20:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by brooke r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well hugging someone and liking it that much doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual, it could just be that you really care for the person. There's really no definate answer on how to find out if you're bi. But I'm bisexual and I can tell you that if you are bisexual, or ever become bisexual, you'll know.
2007-10-08 20:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Angel R 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Means your attracted to her . Personally I see nothing wrong with gays . Not my thing but hey . Try it and see if you like it . It's not like it will kill you . Heck you may just get off and like it . Or you may learn its not for you . I have a gay daughter who was miserablewith her life for a long time till she found out she was gay . Her life is better and she and her freind are living a good life .
2007-10-08 20:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not nessecerly ...mabey your just bi curious ....but go ahead and tell her how you fell ...you said shes bi right...she wont mind ....mabey you need to experience bi-sexuallity ....try it out ...and if you like it alot then your bi ...if not then your not ...just try it out ...it could also be you just like the security that you fell when you hug her .never know ...good luck
2007-10-08 20:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bi is just a word. If you and her both like what you are doing then keep doing it.
2007-10-08 20:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by highyellow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LMAO, not really, 2 girls hugging doesn't mean your bi, unless you have feelings for eachother
2007-10-08 20:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would think that would take a little common sense...if you are attracted to both sexes , I think you could consider yourself bi!
2007-10-08 20:45:25 · answer #11 · answered by onceisenoughilearnedmylesson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋