that's a guy? Just a friend. And happens to live several states away? Not like he's gonna come over for a quickie, right? lol
2007-10-08 12:31:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh Tired - you just go off on a tangent anytime you want in my answers! Here, here's your soap box, step on up! You know me all too well already! lol
2007-10-08 17:48:19 · update #1
Nothing wrong with having male friends. You're telling me that he doesn't have any women friends. No, he shouldn't be mad at you. You chose him, shouldn't he be grateful!
2007-10-08 13:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by W♥ Knit Twit ♥P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you that I would really want to know about it so I can make an educated decision on whether the relationship was worth saving or if I wanted a divorce based on factual information. Clearly by marrying this girl, knowing that she has cheated on him in the past, he has accepted that this is just part of having a relationship with her OR he prefers to live in denial because for whatever reason he'd rather have some part of her than no part of her at all. So I agree with you that i'd just ignore those three because they all clearly have big issues that are not your problem. However, your husband feels that you have broken his confidence. I would suggest first seeking to understand him before seeking to be understood. Apologize for sharing information he gave you in confidence and express how important his trust in you is and whatever else you can say sincerely to make him feel that you understand why he is upset. Hopefully, he will then be willing to listen to you about why you are upset, that you felt you did the right thing and he, of all people, should have your back.
2016-05-19 02:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think not, but boys will be boys. Sometimes it's not about if you can drive over for a quickie. It's about being there emotionally for someone, or maybe the friend is filling the void that there might be in the marriage. Hell i don't know.
Good luck with that
If the husband has insecurity issues
there's going to be trouble
2007-10-08 12:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea / Princess Bitchalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose he has every right to feel how ever he wants to, is it called for? probably not...unless there has been some reason not to trust her. However, maybe he should step up and be the man/ husband he should be and she wouldn't need or want another friend, or maybe he could be friends with her friends too.....OR maybe he shouldn't be there in the first place, maybe he should have left when asked and the question would be void...oops going off on a tangent again aren't I....SORRY sweetie!!
2007-10-08 12:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bite me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I dont see the big deal .. just cause he's male doesnt mean you cant have male friends also. I have one who lives several states away too and he came to my house and gave me abook. He has been a bunch of times although hubby doesnt approve of his lfestyle( friend is gay) he comes whether hubby likes it or not. I tell hubby to shove it. I plan on eating lunch with him and 3 other gals next Sat. hopefully if everyone can make it. If not I will go by myself.
2007-10-08 13:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but that is just my personal opinion. I have always been friends with guys for the most part & my husband knew this when we married. I tend to flirt, but I make it clear that I am married. I don't see anything wrong with having a friend that is the opposite sex. My husband has friends that are women, as well. Trust is the key & if you have that, there shouldn't be any problem.
2007-10-08 13:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♫brokenangel♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys can't handle it. I wouldn't and couldn't be with one of those. I still have a lot of old Army buddies that I talk to and my husband knows them all.
We've been married almost 20 years and he knows I would divorce him before I would cheat. He cheated on me once and it almost ended the marriage. I believe in commit.
As long as there is NO flirting it is fine. You just have to know when to end a conversation if it goes to far or remind them how happily married you are.
2007-10-08 12:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have a best friend that is a guy and he lives across the street, i would never do anything disrespectful because i know that my husband trusts me and i would never want to do anything to ruin that trust, he really loves me, plus having a guy best friend kinda helps when i need a man's opinion when i know my husband is going to lie to me to make me feel good. we have been best friends for about 3 yrs and he sometimes hangs out with my husband too.
2007-10-08 12:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the girl emotionally cheating on him? Would she behave the same way toward this guy while her husband was standing next to her? Is she justifying what she is doing because she knows it's wrong? Put the shoe on the other foot..how would YOU feel?
2007-10-08 15:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same prob.....People seem to think i should stop talking to every on wiht a penis because i have someone i'm serious with..but really... I cant stan MOST girls especially in my area and i dotn think i shoul dhave to be secluded to a desolate depressign life while he's free to associate with WHOEVER he pleases....
2007-10-08 16:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Princess Consuela B. Hammock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋