5 of my friends...count them .....5... are now pregnant. One was not even trying!
I have been friggin trying since dec. 2006. My last BC pill was Dec 24th.
NO LUCK. when will this madness end?
5 of them! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
2007-10-08 12:16:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I feel your pain, and yes, it's definately madness isn't it! But luckily I don't have 5 friends around me who are all pregnant - you win : )
2007-10-08 12:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya on this one, I must give this a star, I no how you feel, I was ttc#1 for 4 years now, now 4 of my friends already have a child, 3 pregnant (one of them whose pregnant already have one baby), and 2 of my younger cousins (17 & 16) are also pregnant. I am getting tire of ppl saying stop stressing just relax and i'll happen to you, its not that easy when you've been trying for so long, all I can say to you is good luck and I'll send thousand of bucket of baby dust to you.
Up to today I haven't spoke to my friends as yet, 2 is having baby next month and one next year, the other one want me to stand God mother but I am not feeling it, it does hurt you inside seeing everyone around you pregnant an you not able to, but just keep the faith
ttc#1 for 4 years now
diagnois with pcos in April 07
currently takinf metformin and clomid 100mg
2007-10-09 09:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey I hear ya! I've been TTC since Dec 05 and no luck! And people all around me are getting pregnant without even trying! I just don't get it really. I'm getting frustrated too.
2007-10-08 19:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's really frustrating--my husband and I ttc for 13 months before I finally got pregnant. If you're charting and your cycle is regular, see if your dh can go for a semen analysis. That's the easiest test there is, so you may as well get it over with. Then, if your cycles are irregular, take your charts to your dr. and ask if s/he can make sure you're ovulating.
It's possible they'll make you wait until Dec. before really helping you, but you might get a pro-active dr. who will do more.
2007-10-08 19:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by eponine1028 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, stop thinking about it, and enjoy trying!!
My friend just found out after 1 1/2 years of trying that they are pregnant. After trying so hard a pregnancy test after pregnancy test - they didn't even check this month until later and it happened.
Good luck!!
2007-10-08 19:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kim B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i totally know what your talking about. all of my friends have 1, 2, 3, 5 kids. it is so depressing. I hate it too. But be strong. When I couldn't take it anymore i just slowing pulled myself away from them and just stayed close to my bf. And friends that weren't or had kids. Or friends that didn't talk about kids 24/7. I know its hard but you have to do what you have to do to not go crazy. I stayed away for baby showers, baptisms and birthday parties. I know my friends kinda hated me for it but i just cant do it. If i did i would end up the next week crying everyday. My bf helped me too he told me if you dont want to then dont stay home with me and dont let it get to you. and i ended up spending the day with him instead enjoying just being in love with my bf and enjoying us, even if we cant enjoy a baby together we enjoy just us. thats what really keeps me going. knowing that even if i cant conceive right now he reminds me that he will love and be with me regardless. and that helps a lot. so i know its hard but keep trying and it will happen sooner later. good luck and **baby dust**
2007-10-09 00:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by badgirlz106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a boy
but heres some advice
go see a doctor and he'll tell you whats going on
you MIGHT have sometime of a condition where you cant reproduce new humans. Its not that common but doctors can tell you if its serious or not. You might be right it could be horrible luck, but if you try it again within a week and nothing? then I would suggest seeing a doctor.
2007-10-08 19:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Chris Stewart 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Should Try And Concieve the Child during the Peak of your Ovulation Period.
2007-10-08 19:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Wiccan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i am fustrated as much as you are.. im trying to get pregnant as well and nothing for the past 4 months now. its very very fustrating to me.... yeah one of my friends just tried and got prego on the first time.. unbelievable. i know ur pain and fustration. i need some ideas to.. i had tried everything possible. :(
Good Luck let me know when you are prego's
2007-10-12 18:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lulu120978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what this world is a ball of problems and nobody will ever be free of frustration so just get over it wit a smile on your face and a song in your heart because this is life that's all
2007-10-08 19:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by quatesha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋