Okay so this might be a little long. So about 2 years ago I met this guy. We dated for a while but then we broke things off. A few months later he started dating this other girl. He would still tell me how much he liked me and how if him and his gf would break up he would be with me. Well, that went on for about a year. On one of their breaks in the summer we hooked up, and stayed really close every since then. About a month ago him and his gf broke up, and we've hooked up and have been getting closer. The problem is, he lives 3 hours away from me, because he moved to college.
Do you think it would all be worth it, or am I just in over my head in the whole situation???
Thanks a bunch!
2007-10-08 12:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think your over your head hun.... Sorry but a college guy dont want to be tied down
2007-10-08 12:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a messed up, immature relationship. No offence honestly, because your young so it's natural I guess. Have fun, but I wouldn't think this will really last If someone else comes along, I would go for it. Don't waste your youth waiting around for some guy. He seems like he's been using you as a back-up plan in the past.
Good Luck.
2007-10-08 19:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is a good chance he will stray. If that don't bother you then hang in there. Otherwise I would move on. Unless you can get some commitment from him but that's no guarantee either. It's what it's worth to you and how much you want the relationship. Best wishes.
2007-10-08 19:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a struggle from the beginning. 3 hours away is going to be even more of a struggle.
2007-10-08 19:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~FordMan~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sort of scary. Are you his "fall-back" girl, or his real love?
That's a tough question, but you need to figure it out.
A bit of wisdom that has helped me:
"Never make someone a priority to whom you are nothing but an option."
2007-10-08 19:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your description revolved around the issue of convienance....it's hard to give you valuable advice without knowing your family dynamic....
love is not an on-again, off again thing....it is truly solid....immutable....
so enjoy the ride, but from the info you gave us, it sounds short-lived and superficial...
sorry chick-pie
2007-10-08 19:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by bluesbrother74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all;persue the relationship
2007-10-08 19:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you can trust him? Maybe you and him should just remain friends.
2007-10-08 19:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋