Me and my boy had sex and now i'm pregnant!!?

Question

I'm only 15 and i'm pregnant!! I'm due in June! and my boyfriend says that he will never leave me but wat should i do! And i'm scared!!

Answer 1

hi, i know exactly what you are going thorough..my friend was raped and now she might be pregnant..but remember you do what you think so..you are the mother of this child... if you want someone to talk to just email me

Answer 2

I'm going through a pregnancy scare right now (I hope it comes SOON!!)

I must say: stay brave...we're all in this together... you're never alone. If you need help- there are opportunities to get help. If you're scared of ridicule, then there's always forgiveness. Being scared is reasonable, I'd be worried if you weren't. But being scared won't help us- instead get prepared. June will be here soon and you'll have a new life to look over, you CAN do it. Save up money, find people to help you, and research as much as you can. The more informed you are: the less scary it is.

Hang in there, you baby is depending on you. right now- it is the most important thing. Love it as the child it is, not the problem you think it will be.

Good Luck- I'll pray for you and your bright future...

Answer 3

You have instantly changed from being a kid with fantasies, into the cruel word of adulthood. You alone must now stand to protect the baby who you must love, feed, nurture. The baby is faultless, and is not "asking" to be born.

If you are to immature, and I don't mean to be mean-hearted here, just adult about this, you have to get some one to help you understand the ramifications of your situation. It is no longer sex and love for you. It is how and where will I get the money to raise this child. It is cutting way back on spending money on you, and your fun life. I suppose you don't have insurance, a job, or any idea where to find help.
A good place besides good parents (I hope) may be your school counselor, who can direct you to a teen pregnancy agency.

Perhaps one you have had the baby growing inside of you, you may make the second mistake: abortion, or adoption. Please think long and hard of those issues too.

The boy friend? Really lady, I bet he leaves once the sex issue is stopped. And at his age, he would need a great job--not McDonald's --to support you and the total needs of a new baby.

Is it doable? sure. But it is going to be tough, and you have to be dedicated. Oh, by the way, make sure you let your girl friends know giving their boy friends sex, ends up like this too. May be they can learn from your tragedy.

Answer 4

It depends on your situation. People lie, people change their minds, and it seems like your aware of that, so that's the first step. Realize that things CAN change, but also keep in mind that doesn't mean he is someone who will ditch. I don't know your situation. Your going to need to tell everyone. It also depends on who your living with, and the income of that household, and some few other things. If you want you can contact me on yahoo (tryahel is my username) and I will help you answer some of those questions. My boyfriend and, altho quite a bit older, were both freaked out and are having to go through all of this right now ourselves. Also if your curious about giving it up for adoption of having an abortion, I won't judge, I can help you find any information you may need. I've been through it all, trust me.

Answer 5

I suggest the book what to expect when your expecting. It helped me. Saddly I lost my first child to a miscarriage. but It did help when i and my hubby were expecting. The best thing to do is to take a deep breath and know you can do this. It is scary yes but think about it your going to have a cute little bundle of joy. Start getting exercise but don't push it to far. mommy yoga is good it helps prepare those hips to make birthing easier. Eat good and remember to stay away from carbonated drinks as best as you can. drink lots of water to keep you hydrated because most woman become very constipated while pregnant. read up on things as much as you can. Don't be afraid to ask questions and as for your boyfriend don't stress out over this. Sit down and talk with him and tell him what is worrying you. Tell him you want to make this work because you two are bringing a child in the world together and you want it to be a stress free environment for you he and the child. Get plenty of sleep too. if you feel like you need to nap during the day do so. and also always check in with your doctor if something is bothering you. don't be afaird to ask questions they get paid to help. Anyways best wishes and It will all be okay

Answer 6

Wait...June is 8 months away.
If you have only just missed your period, then your better off taking a home pregnancy test (or buy 100 like on Knocked Up lol). Also, if it comes back positive, then please find a docter to speak with. Here are a few funny movies to watch if you are preggy:
Knocked up (#1 sooo funny)
....Riding in Cars With Boys and Fifteen and Pregnant are ok....but kind of downers.
I really like the one about the lady who lives in wal mart while pregnant (i forgot the name but natalie portman is in it. google it.)
best of luck.

Answer 7

This boils down to your beliefs. The smartest move is abortion because if you have a child you can kiss your young life goodbye. You can give up for adoption but that usually is way to hard to do & a life time pain in your mind. Forget the father for now, he is way too young & will not help you or leave you soon enough. It is your choice. What do you feel is best for you as a person ? Not him or the baby at this stage but you. If your family is not rich you are in for struggles you never imagined. Be smart by deciding what you want & go from there. Do not count on the father.

Answer 8

You should take responsibility for your actions. having a baby is a very very big responsibility. you have to make a lot of sacrifices. if you're still in school, make sure you do good in school, remember, you have a little one on the way..you should take care of yourself. Drink prenatal vitamins.

Please DO NOT get an abortion...

Do not be scared, focus your energy towards positive things, what has been done, has been done and the best thing you can do is try to make things right.

Apply for WIC and try to get a job.

Goodluck! I wish you well..

Answer 9

i was 15 when i had my first son and my babydaddy said the same thing.just know that a man can walk away at any time and all you will is family.when my babydaddy walked out on me my family was there for me.so if he stay around thats great but if not you can do it by your self and dont ever let anyone tell you other wise, no matter who it may be..

Answer 10

Tell your parents.
Go to the doctor.
Get a job if you can.
Get the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting" - the BIBLE for a pregnant woman.
Look into medical assistance like Medicaid and WIC - but DO NOT abuse it - use it until you get on your feet, but not as a crutch that'll always be there.
Talk to God.

Good luck!

Answer 11

My, you work fast. Just yesterday, you were trying to decide whether or not to have sex. Less than 24 hours later, you are pregnant.

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