If she had a good head on her,i probably wouldn't worry so much, but she is so naive, and really irresponsible, im just worried she'll go into something thats stronger than her
2007-10-08 11:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by BUTTERFLY 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
She may be in debt. All you can do is keep an eye on her. Its her life and i know you care but if shes got a good head on her shoulders, as you say, she'll do it regardless. Just tell her to be safe and not to do anything outside of the club.
2007-10-08 11:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by mishnbong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the fact that she's in university i would say that your baby sister isn't a "baby" anymore. She's a grown woman and old enough to think for herself. Let her spread her wings! And besides, all pole dancing clubs have heavy security, especially around the dancers. Worry about her in a way that gives your sister the space she needs. If she needs help she will ask for it.
2007-10-08 14:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by cherripro 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find some older, disillusioned pole dancers to talk to her -- If that doesn't work, then show her some real dancers like great bellydancers on video or in London -- if she saw what it takes to be any kind of good dancer, she might get the picture. She even might become interested in some legitimate form of dance & possibly make a living at one of those. good luck
2007-10-09 07:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by amerye950 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunateley, every human being "grows" into maturity at different stages of life and your "baby" sister has to discover that in order to have sound judgement, and become sharp in perception of life's dangers when you live a frivolous life, will come in time and experience (shrewd). Sometimes people snap out of the wrong road before it is too late, sometimes you reap what you sow. All decisions weather good or bad has its results on the choices made in life and no one is to blame but the person who made those choices.
2007-10-08 18:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by AnnaNatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes though it can hurt all you can do is leave her to it and be there when it all falls down. Its probably just one of those things she feels like she neeeds to do and she will come out of it when this stage of her life is complete and she realises she can do better. I hope for you both its not too late when she does. Just carry on being a great sister to her
2007-10-08 11:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by haha_islaughing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably wont stop her and in tryng to push her away or the ther way round
Shell do what she wants and thats it thats the way their built after uni so independant but she will come round hopefully not to late either goodluck nd b u b i ]
2007-10-09 06:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by [[..dncahfaevah..]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has had her mind to it nobody can actually stop her support her and if she doesnt like it then at least she will realise that you have supported her
on the other hand she is inviting a heck a lot of exytra stress and trouble in her life
2007-10-08 11:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Perfectionist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know why this is in A&H but i'll say you should just tell her how you feel that youre hurt thats she's is doing this with her life and that you're scared for her.
you can tell her how you feel but you can't maker her change her mind she's gotta do what she wants to do.
2007-10-08 11:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Andria W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T its her own peace of mind and is really really good for you, it sounds horrible when you say it but it really is good for you and lots of women take it up. trust me its great fun too!
she could make something out of it! create a business, make a school, anything!
2007-10-12 10:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anouska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pole dancing sounds more fun then being stuck in some stuffy university. Let her live her own life, no point in trying to stop her once she's made up her mind.
2007-10-08 11:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lie to me 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋