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Question

Some kids more than others respond to spankings?

What's the best form of discipline

Answer 1

Depends on what the kids respond to. They need to learn discipline, and that there are consequences to their actions. However the parents can teach that to the kids, then that is their business.

Answer 2

See the problem with "spanking" is that ITS NOT THE F'IN SPANKING THAT MATTERS!!!!!!!! Are people just naturally dense? Never mind.... its about how you relate to your kiddos about the spanking. Some parents think, you spank, you send to room, end of discussion. THATS HORRIBLE PARENTING!!! HORRIBLE!!! Some parents REALIZE, you talk to them,then you spank them, then you talk to them, then you send them to their room, and then you talk to them so more. SO really it isn't that kiddos respond differently, its that we relate differently with kiddos about the spanking. Really your supose to use GUILT in conjuction with PAIN, to reinforce CONCIOUS, it works great, but pain without guilt makes for some perves kiddos that are not sure why they get punished, they figure its just something they need to avoid, which usually conculates into them believeing it was only becuase they got caught that they did something wrong, can you say criminal? Now if you attach more feelings and emotions on it, like lets say, dads disappointed, I expected more out of you son? why? You know what I have to do right? I know I know it hurts both of us, SPANK, SPANK, SPANK, ok son go to your room I'll be there in a bit, and will talk about this, etc, etc, it needs to be a ritual....