every time i do somthing my friend does not like she all ways leaves what should i do?
2007-10-08 07:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is not a friend.
Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with. That alone will make your life better.
2007-10-08 07:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and fine another friends who can be true friends that likes you just the way you are and accept you. Friends don't really have to care very much, but if she is your best, she should care more about you. Good luck with you friend, it's sad to loose a friends too.
2007-10-08 14:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a mature friend who can talk things out with you.
2007-10-08 14:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥lOvE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
talk to her and tell her what are you feeling about this?
or may be she have bad thing or problem she can not tell you about it.
or you really doing things she do not like it and in this time you have to change for the best.
bye.'sara",
2007-10-08 14:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another friend who will support you what ever you do,because thats the reason why ppl have friends and this one isnt so mature...
2007-10-08 14:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to avoid doing stuff that she does not like and try talking to your friend
2007-10-08 14:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by tootsie roll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not your friend. Your job is not to please her every time.
friends just hung around and look out for each other.
2007-10-08 14:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Diego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that's her problem. Call her on it.
2007-10-08 14:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask here why ok
2007-10-08 14:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋