sex, i mean...
2007-10-08 06:34:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
There is no true etiquette to having sex.
If it feels right then it probably is right. If it is not , then there is no putting that genie back in the bottle, so why worry about it.
If it feels wrong then it is wrong and forcing it will not make it feel right.
I could see having sex at first sight.
I could see not having sex at all.
Love has little to do with sex and vice versa.
So the answer is whenever you feel comfortable that is how long you should wait.
2007-10-08 16:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I first got laid, it was a new adventure, and I had no problem with one night stands. But that was around forty years ago, birth control pills at hand, and no STD worries.
As of the first cases of health danger to show up in society, I changed my view, plus God arrived in my life to give me a much less cavalier approach.
Now I think one should have an established relationship of physical fidelity, whether in marriage, or total trust of commitment. So it is not so much a matter of time, as the real connection and understanding that makes sex something other than a sensate experience. Though it should probably take at least weeks of constant togetherness and asking one another questions to know.
For myself, I decided over twenty years ago that I wasn't going to have sex again, unless I met a partner for a lifetime. Of all things, that was the start of my never meeting anyone again with whom I had a mutual attraction, mentally and the chemical spark that leads to passion. I've been celibate ever since.
Thanks for asking. Them that don't like to talk about it. LOL
2007-10-08 10:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit. Until both of you are feeling comfortable enough with the other, and you both feel the time is right. This is such a personal decision for each individual person that I could never give you even a suggested time frame.
2007-10-08 06:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it at all, nothing good will come of it.
We would be much better off if we were pollinated by bees and humingbirds. Our society would be a lot more peaceful and people would be a lot happier.
That is what the gene manipulators should be working on.
2007-10-08 06:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't follow a pattern when it comes to this. I usually want to to engage in sex asap. But I am a bit of a whore. "When the time feels right," sounds just about right. It would be wise to know the person's name. For future referrence...Yup...
2007-10-08 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best sex I ever had on a date was in a bathroom on Deutsche rail. It was my second date with this crazy delicious guy and I would do it again! I'm still a *whore* for him and we just celebrated 13yrs of marriage.
2007-10-08 07:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whatever both parties are comfortable with, there's really no right or wrong answer. Me, I have to know someone first. Not too comfortable with the casual one-night stand thing.
2007-10-08 06:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes..its immediately..psychologists say that you love a person after a few seconds...? Sometimes its like a lovely game to enjoy.to wait...like a good wine. ..sometimes...an experience...i wouldn't sleep with the woman because i didn't destroy the atmosphere....the words we changed..... this deep understanding...sometimes that's more then sex...but...it depends on the context.
2007-10-08 20:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Coral C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When-the-moment-gives
all-signals-that-the
appropriate-time-has-come.
2007-10-08 06:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a personal decision for someone. I would rather wait until I know for sure that they don't have any std's and also go by how much I care about him.
2007-10-08 06:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋