Is there a possibility that people suffering from ADHD cause issues in a relationship?

Question

I was in a relationship and about to get married when we had many issues that came up, sometimes without the knowledge of my fiancee. We tried to deal with these issues and they got worse. I have done my very best to recindle our relation but for reason, my fiancee thinks that I am making things up about her daughter and not try to appreciate her. This has caused me great heartache and disappointment although I try not show it most of the time. I am still trying to find help for this girl eventhough her mother and I are no longer in a relationship. If there is anyone out there who can give me advise, please do so. Thank you all for your time.

Answer 1

Just so you know I had ADhD thru-out my youth. It cause UNBELIEVABLE strain on me, my family and my school. The fact is its actually a social disorder, not so much that I was stupid, as much as I lacked the ability to learn from someone else, inpertuculaly in a group environment. Thru medication at frist I was better able to focus with in a one-on-one sitatuion and thru that eventually learn to, well lol, learn. This went on tell I was about 13-14, when puberty finally hit, I surpassed everyone in highschool, not to say I was a genius, I simply learned, to learn better then them. But its comes down to the fact that social stimlation is WAY to much for are over-active minds, to the point that we act, well drunk, actually is the best way to discribe it. BUt if she is doing anything less of this, she isn't adhd, and it on itself doesn't end relaitonship. The INABLITY of those envolved to ADAPT to the problems that arise in a relaitonship, does, that means your both to blame thou, no matter what.....