I didnt have sex on my estimated date of conception but, i did 3 days before & a wk after. with 2 different men. One with my ex and one with my current boyfriend. which occasion do you think my conception occured?
2007-10-08 05:56:42 · 33 answers · asked by young_luv08 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
3 days before your estimated date of conception, as sperm can live up to 3 days , and sometimes 5 if the environment is good.
2007-10-08 05:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tiara 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
more than likely the 3 days before because sperm can live inside of a woman for up to 5-6 days. they doctor give you an estimated conception date based on your cycle which would put you ovulating 2 weeks after the first day of your last period but if your cycle isn't "normal" then the doctor could be wrong. i used a site to help me figure out all of my dates and so far it has been right on timing and all for me. i used it to help me conceive with this pregnancy!
Also would like to add that you should ignore all those comments. somethings just happen . you could have split up your ex and then found a new man in a few days and felt comfortable enough with him to have had sex. They don't know you they shouldn't judge you. also everyone makes mistakes now and then. as long as you take care of the baby don't worry about what others think of you!!!!
2007-10-08 06:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by dixiedarlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't no way to be sure. Chances r you'll have to get a DNA test to see who the father is, but that usually only occurs after the baby is born. Other than that, might I suggest not sleeping with multiple partners in such a short time frame, I mean, all this trouble could have been avoided if you just struck with one.
2007-10-08 06:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by losvolt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 3 days before your date of conception. Sperm can live inside you for up to 3 days until you ovulate, which sounds like what it did. It wouldn't make sense to have concieved then had sex and that sperm get you pergnant. But how reliable is your information of when you concieved? Did you know exactly when you were ovulating? If not then it is hard to say. I would still reccommend a paternity test. Good luck!!!
2007-10-08 06:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by sara_polo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like you did a boo-boo... LOL Most likely its the Ex's baby... Now you gotta fight with both guys about which is the daddy... A typical muarry show... Get your facts together and please learn from this you have a long road ahead of you. Also, many support battles... make sure to make them take a DNA test and learn not to cheat... good luck and i feel sorry for your child already setting bad examples... try to make yourself a better mother if the father doesnt want to be around...
2007-10-08 06:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by marriedgirl@19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with your loose morals, who do you tell first, the ex or the BF ? and what if neither one wants the kid, who's going to take care of it, and explain to it why it has no father? now you force it on one of them with a DNA test. Glad I am not your BF...or your ex. You should use birth control if all you are going to do is sleep around. Grow up and take responsibility so no more unwanted kids are brought into the world by those like you.
2007-10-08 06:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably 3 days before, because like the other answers sperm can live inside of you for up to two days and when you are ovulating any of those three days your egg can be implanted with the sperm. It is terribly close though. Good luck with your situation.
2007-10-08 06:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tara Combs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely the 3 days before. Sperm are tough little buggers and can survive 10 days in a womans body. So when you ovulated they were there and waiting!!!
2007-10-08 06:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what days were they? you can ovulate from day 10-15 if your cycle is normal. if you know you were ovulating these 2 different days i would say 3 days before.
I cant believe you guys act like you have not had more than 1 partner you guys brag about it at school or on the street then you hear it from a woman and its taboo?? her question wasnt about our opinions on her sex partners it was about conception it snt in the rules not to post a question like this so why you guys have a problem with it? if you dont "agree" with it dont respond that simple.
2007-10-08 06:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all this sounds like some Maury sh*t... I hope you haven't been with your new boyfriend for too long just in case it isn't his. But most likely it could be either way the doctor estimates when he thinks you had sex... so most likely the closest date is the right date.
2007-10-08 06:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋