2007-10-08 05:23:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i don't thing so
2007-10-08 05:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
Yes.Seperation is not Divorce.And even then sometimes a Divorce is not the end of a relationship.Why make things more complicated,and painful?Stick to your vows and work through it together."For better or For worse."
Does anybody take real commitment seriously these days?It may be tough but it has great rewards.
2007-10-08 06:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by shellyangelwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you are trying to work things out and reconcile or whether you are simply waiting for the divorce to be finalized. It's probably not a good idea to date before the divorce because if your ex finds out she might use adultery against you in court. If you want to move on and start fresh with someone else it's best to get divorced. Also other women might be turned off if they find out you are married. They'll think it means you don't take commitment seriously.
2007-10-08 05:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by scarletxvi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on the intention of the separation...
If you are separated with the intention of getting back together then yes, it is wrong.
If you are separated because you have to be legally separated for x amount of months before you can legally divorce then no, it's not wrong, it is called moving on with your life.
2007-10-08 06:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are separating to give each other space and then may reconcile, then yes I think it's wrong to involve a 3rd person to further complicate things. If you are separating so that you are separate, but just can't afford a divorce yet, but want to lead separate lives with no chance of reconciling, then no, I think that is fine. Although, it may not be wise.
2007-10-08 05:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People with high integrity end one relationship before even taking steps to start another one.
So... if you want to be known as somebody with low integrity, then it doesn't matter.
I would never date anybody not divorced. The term "adultry" comes to mind.
2007-10-08 05:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two are still married, even though you both are going through difficulties in the marriage. Consequently, seeing another woman is considered adultery/cheating under the said circumstances.
2007-10-08 05:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want the separation to end in divorce, see other people.
2007-10-08 05:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on if you guys have said you're trying to work things out. But if you have no plans to work it out, then no. Just be honest with your spouse about your intentions. Otherwise separation could become more permanent, and if that's not what you want, then it could backfire on you.
2007-10-08 05:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by trapeze 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only if you are sure your going to get divorced. And not around the kids. They should know nothing about it. Oh and not if your still sleeping together. Then that would be wrong.
2007-10-08 05:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no you have made your decision that you arent together, even if u are still married but seperated i think its fair.. there shouldnt be a problem
2007-10-08 06:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by T.C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋