i personally belive that "if a women take divorce from her husband her whole life is so miserable".men always want to exploit women in different manners. the society also won't care them and won't give respect for them.a womin is alwys safe in her husband presence only.
i think even women also never give respect to them.
wht i want to tell u is never take divorce from u r partner.live happily with u r partner.
if her husband is a rog then only she will take divorce from her husband.
2007-10-08 04:46:09 · 19 answers · asked by p.praveen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must be from the middle east
2007-10-08 04:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Huh???
Let me just reply this way...
First, I was married once before. And I ended up much happier after the divorce. Some people are NOT meant to be together - especially when there is adultery, addiction or abuse. No woman (or man) can be happy in their marriage if these things are part of the marriage.
Second, women need to stop handing out sex as if it was just "something to pass the time with." It should be considered sacred. The reason most women do NOT find love is because too many of them have sex first and then try to make a relationship, instead of building a relationship first and then (if the relationship blossoms and becomes serious) sex becomes a natural expression of love - and let me say this - it should be in a committed relationship - as in MARRIAGE, girls. Any animal can rut. I'd like to think we are more than just animal lust.
Third - I am living proof that there is life and love after a divorce. I got married the first time for all the wrong reasons - and the divorce was the best thing to happen to me, because it was a wake up call to how I was doing things wrong. When I smartened up, and began to take more responsibility for my life and actions, I began looking for (and only willing to accept) those traits in men that I knew would be good for a lifelong partner.
I am so happily married to day because of it.
2007-10-08 12:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mama's on the half tip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IDIOT! I was just gonna leave it at that, but then thought I would re-iterate. Maybe you should learn proper english before posting something, that is, if you wish people to take you seriously! Also it is 2007, no 1407!!! Even in the 1400's seperation was common, just not labeled as 'divorce'. It is obvious that you are completely ignorant about such things and should just keep you mouth shut. I truelly feel sorry for your wife (or future wife) and furthermore your children, since obviously your parents brainwashed you as well! Who would marry a divorced woman? Why don't you ask my husband??? Here's a little wake up call for you, in your own little fantasy world. My first husband started using intreveiniouse drugs and alchohol and became abusive towards me and our 6 month old daughter ....and you say "a womin is alwys safe in her husband presence only." ...HA!!! Do not be suprised when your marriage is not fulfilling and you are not truelly happy, for someone with a perceptin of marriage as you have could never fully give or receive in a truelly loving way, all you would know how to do would be to expect, and demand. SO sad!! My husband and I are so totally happy and in love (five years now, and still honemooning!), he lets me be me, and I let him be him. We love eachother completely, and do not set prehistoric limitations on eachother. We enjoy a love that you have no choice of ever finding!
2007-10-08 12:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women have had successful second marriages. Lots of women get divorces becuase of men that don't know how to be responsible partners. Or any number of reasons. Why are you asking are you a "rog" (rogue) that's wife is leaving and you're trying to tell yourself she will never make it? If that is the reason than more than likely you are wrong, she will do just fine. The real question is who would marry a man that doesn't even know how to type a question that makes sense? I take it English is not your first language.
2007-10-08 11:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of happy people after divorce. Yes though I do agree that you should try to stay with your partner, it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes you will get a partner that completely refuses to work on the marriage, you may have mental illness, abuse, etc. There are a few incidents where divorce is best. I have several friends that have been divorced and remarried and have been with their current partners for over 10 years. I would say that says something there.
2007-10-08 11:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand if this a question or an opinion. women can remarry if they are divorced. they can find someone else to love and marry. you are a little backwards by the way you speak. people do not shun a divorced woman, but you live in your own world anyway. don't you.and what about a divorced man. is he more disrespectful if he marries a divorced woman? also safety comes in numbers, meaning that they are safe with each other.
2007-10-08 12:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your conceptions regarding women and divorce are quite Victorian and not based on reality at all.
I'm in a second marriage in my life now. I'm married to my best friend who happens to have a previous marriage behind her, her ex was a drug addict, he was suicidal and he could be abusive at times. He ran away from a hospital to undergo rehab and he refuses treatment. He made his choice and my best friend had to guard herself and her two kids.
I'm a dad and a step-dad, I also escaped from a very destructive marriage to a woman who turned violent, psychotic, dangerous, she is in permanent life long psychiatric care with no hope of recovery as per the doctors because hers is partially inherited insanity from her mother and due to Rubella.
And I strongly disagree with the simple-minded theology that the man is always right (because it's not true, marriage should be a partnership).
2007-10-08 11:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some women get a divorce to get away from an abusive relationship. Women who divorce are not miserable, just human beings with feelings. Be more nice.
2007-10-08 11:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your having marriage issues and your wife is leaving you. It is time for you to realize that many women live happily in 2, 3,4 and evan 5th marriages. Sometimes alot of guys will pour on the charm to get the women to marry then they will show there true colors. Like they are controlling, manipulative buttheads and feel that the women has no say in the marriage maybe this is a picture of YOU?. Anyways you have a closed mind and it is only going to make you miserable unless you open up to the realization that women have lots of say and that marriage is a partnership not someone owning someone!
2007-10-08 12:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My dad's sister got divorced. She re-married and is happy. Her new husband takes good care of her. They get along well. I don't know why you think that a decent guy won't want a divorced woman - that's not true.
2007-10-08 12:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You must be from a foreign country where women have little to no say.
My ex-husband was a lying, cheating, ******. The best thing I did in my life was love myself and my children more than I loved him and left him :-D
Many divorcee's re-marry, and live happily thereafter. There isn't a lacking for men to marry those women who are divorced.
2007-10-08 11:52:17 · answer #11 · answered by AlS 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋