parents that you possibly be gay/lesbain, or bi? how your parents take it? I told my parents that I'm bi, my mom nearly fainted and my dad just sit there and stared at me then went cooking dinner.....I'm sure my parents doing alright with the fact about me being bi.
2007-10-08 03:29:48 · 15 answers · asked by bunnielover 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My brother "suggested" to my mother I just might be, and I am, so she confronted me with it, and she said she doesn't care. She said "same rules apply if you were to date a girl: They must treat you nicely." =]
Dad, don't go there. Nobody on that side of the family knows.
2007-10-08 03:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my family, my mom told me that she could never be disappointed in me and that she was happy for me. That she would always be there for me. My dad said, "we'll talk about it later" and when I brought it up in the car on the ride home, he said, "we'll work around it" I took my dad to a restaurant, as I was afraid he would flip out... I figured if I took him out in public he wouldn't make a scene. Needless to say my dad and I are not close. He was talking about working around it in Boy Scouts, as you can't be gay and in the BSA. Other wise now he tells me he's fine with it. I don't know if I believe him or not. But my mom is fine with it and I think we've grown closer since I told her.
2007-10-08 11:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't told em yet. probably not going 2 tell my dad either. my brother and i have a close friend thats gay and my mother is absolutely fine with it, on the other hand my dad forbid us to see him. ( haha don't you just love divorces.. ) well anyway im not so sure about telling my mo im bi just yet. i think shes starting to figure it out since im always with my one friend ( thats sadly straight; or so she says.. ) but were always fooling around so she might already know. so only time will tell
2007-10-08 11:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never came out and told either of my parent's because my moms side of the family is close minded and I just was never really close to my dad growing up - aparently though I didn't need to... one day minding my own buisness brushing my hair my momma cornered me in the bathroom and flat out goes 'are you bisexual?' i didn't answer yes or no but she took it as whatever my answer it wasn't no... and to my surprise she wanted to take me out to eat for being honest with her!! a year or so later i went to a pride parade and wore my "i kiss girls" t-shirt and my mom makes a smart comment to my dad who's response is 'so f***ing what!?' his side is very open about these things so his reaction didn't surprise me at all... we just were never close untill recently he realized his baby girl was all grown up and could leave at any moment....
2007-10-08 11:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I went to school and learned basic grammar and punctuation instead.
I didn't TELL my parents I "possibly" could be gay, I told them I AM gay.
They were perfectly fine with it, as a matter of fact, they always knew.
2007-10-08 10:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao
my mother was crying (Y?!?!? i said i like guys too i didnt say i was addicted to drugs or in a gang or enlisting in the army)
she was crying like i i were dying
my father hated me just simply hated me to the point where he said he wished i would just die (when i was little i was sick and he said he wished i died then to prevent all this "humilation" w/e the hell with him"
so yea....it was a great year
my little bro found out(hes a freshman) and he didnt really care which was really weird but then i found out that one of his best friends whom he loves to heart is a lisbean so yea that's y he doesnt care.
my parents were a little stunned by my bro's reaction that they realizd they were blowing this thing way out of proportion so they calmed down and changed a little
i really dont care anymore "I AM ME AND I WON'T CHANGE FOR ANYONE"
2007-10-08 11:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um when I was 10 I had a very close friend who was a girl my mom freak out because she was afraid I was gay, again when I was 17 I have a very close friend who's a girl she forbid me to play with her because she looks gay, so I think I know how my parents are going to react..... T_T
2007-10-08 11:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not told family. The family in talking claim to be liberal, but make little jokes sometimes that lead me to not to believe how open they are
2007-10-08 10:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, not yet anyway. im 15 and gay, iv decided to tell ma bros and sisters first then maybe parents ........ not sure though
2007-10-08 11:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ryann... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents said they knew.
2007-10-08 10:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by MRM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋