what happens when you have sex?

Answer 1

No one is a mind reader
In many couples, one or both partners feel that the other doesn't understand how to satisfy them sexually. And I know from my work at a sex and relationships counsellor that this can knock the confidence of both people.

The problem is that when it comes to sex we expect to be instant experts, with instinctive knowledge of what pleases us and a partner. But actually, sex is just like any other skill. If we want to learn how to drive a car or ride a bike, we have to start as beginners and take lessons. And with sex, to understand your own responses and your lover's, you have to learn and practice.

This is because everyone responds differently to sex and sexual arousal. Some like gentle touches, others prefer heavier, rougher contact. One person will be turned on by something another finds unpleasant or uninteresting. Unless you're psychic, the only way to get to know your partner's tastes, and for them to get to know yours, is by communicating.

Say what you'd like to try
Talking about what you like and dislike has several benefits. Not only can simply talking about sex add to your excitmement, but the more you talk, the more relaxed and confident you'll be with your partner. I know from my work that most people would like more variety in their love lives, but they're held back from suggesting whatever they'd like to try, whether it's oral sex, bondage or new positions, by embarrassment or fear of rejection.

But you don't have to come out with a bald request. One good technique is to find the option you fancy on the web or in a magazine or a book, and point it out, saying, "That looks fun. Want to try it?" The chances are that, far from being put off, your partner will jump at the chance to experiment. (For more ideas see I'd like you to...).

Non-verbal cues
Communication is vital but there's no need to subject each other to a commentary or a barrage of instructions. You can make your needs known with a range of non-verbal cues. (For more ideas see Bedroom talk).

Let them know when they've hit the spot
Next time you have sex, make sure your partner knows when they've found the right place. If they need a bit of guidance, gently move their hands to demonstrate what turns you on. Make the communication two-way; listen and notice the movements and sounds your partner makes, so you can pick up their likes and dislikes, too.

Be honest, positive and demonstrative
If you're going to say what you'd like and ask what your partner wants, there are three important points to keep in mind.

Be positive. Don't tell your partner they're terrible in bed. Remember something they did that you really liked and say, "When you did that, I really..." They'll get the message.
Be honest. There's no point in faking it or saying you like something you don't, because that gives your partner no incentive and no guidance to do better.
Be demonstrative.


Erogenous zones
The most sensitive sexual areas are

Breasts, nipples, genitals and lips
Ear lobes, fingers, toes
The soft skin inside the elbows and knees, the small of the back and the nape of the neck

Answer 2

Perhaps you should ask a more specific question as this is pretty general
You could go on the Internet and using Yahoo key in Teen / sex / puberty .
I am sure you will get more than enough detail to satisfy your curiosity !!

Answer 3

I apologize to my partner, leave a $20 bill on the bathroom counter, sneak out before the jagermeister wears off, then cry a little on the way home.

Answer 4

Blood circulation to genital region increases resulting erection.Movement of penis results in pressure in testicles ,pumping out fluid and resulting ejaculation.Then circulation in genital region decreases resulting in soft penis.The movements inside out creates pleasure for the partners.

Answer 5

You feel like your'e eating a huge big mac. Your genitals will undergo serious mutilation and evetually thay will off. Trust me sex is bad!

Answer 6

nothing happens u feel good or bad depending on ur situation

Answer 7

you learn obligations responsibility and duty very quickly...

before engaging in any sex, i suggest you learn about contraception... which is easier than learning about responsibility etc

Answer 8

you try than you will know what happened?

you can getting a baby!

Answer 9

i feel on top of the world
it's the only place i want to be LOL

cathybaby x

Answer 10

semen will come out of your penis into the girl but if you wear a condom the semen will not go into the girl and enjoy it