people say i'm a tomboy and blame me 'cause of this. is it realy a problem? should i change my way?
2007-10-08 02:14:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What do you mean by the term "tomboy" or boyish? Are you assertive, confident in your abilities, physically strong, competitive, unconcerned with the superficiality of the "fashon" world, thrifty?
If you answer yes to one or more of them --- then stop being ashamed and enjoy your success --- I'll bet that you are "mocked" more by your purported "GF's then any boy ---
If a male will not treat you as an equal because you can outrun him, out shoot him, or are smarter than he is --- LOST him and keep yourself.
2007-10-08 02:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by KarenL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be who you are. I don't even know how people could blame you for being you (No one chooses who they are).
The most important thing is to be a good person and to treat people with respect. Those people making fun of you for being a tomboy are not acting like good human beings. No matter if you are a boyish girl or a girlish boy or half-dog or whatever. Being a good person is all that matters.
2007-10-08 19:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by papasfritas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with being a boyish girl, if you're
happy with who you are that's all that matters. My beautiful
niece was boyish til she turned 20, now she is a little more
feminine. It has never made any difference to me, all that
has ever matter was that she is happy
2007-10-08 02:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by kerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong at all. I'm a tomboy, and I've embraced both the fact that I'm tomboyish, and a girl. So what?
Let them say whatever, jsut be yourself:)
2007-10-08 02:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well some tomboy chicks are real ugly and unattractive so if you want to be like that then you might want to change your ways.
2007-10-08 02:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Derek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong. Live your life the way you want and keep gossip away from you.
2007-10-08 02:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not at all.
I'm pretty boyish too :smile:
It's just them being prejudice...
2007-10-08 02:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See,the girlish Girls feel threatened by you.Let them be. You be what you are.It's really not your problem at all.
2007-10-08 02:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be who ever makes you happy. because after all you have to life with yourself, not them.
2007-10-08 02:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself
2007-10-08 08:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by Doodles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋