without hurting the friendship as i think i might have fallen in love a friend but i don't want her to know because i think it might destroy our frienship
2007-10-08 01:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's better to love and to be loved, than never. Put your words in action. Let her feel that you love her by means of simple things. But not too obvious like giving flowers. You know, like texting her, or calling her sometimes. Then after that, probably if you've got the guts and confidence of telling her your feelings, then do so. Friendship is the best root of love :) Good luck :)
2007-10-08 01:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Quel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It "has" to be alright, because that's what has happened. It's true the dynamics of your friendship will change as a result of your intensified feelings, but there's no guarantee that things will worsen as a result, so why be afraid of love? And if that's the case, why go through the subterfuge of keeping those feelings hidden? (Loving someone is supposed to be a good thing, and it very well can be if you let it.) Fighting it might just wind up producing the "harm" you're seeking to avoid.
2007-10-08 02:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is oki to love somebody and not tell them how you feel, But do you really want to live without knowing if there was ever a chance for you 2 to be together??
You shud tell her how you feel but say ' If you don't feel the same way then I'm happy being friends'
If she's a true friend she'll let you down gently and if she feels the same way then ur a lucky boy :P
Goodluck xxx
2007-10-08 02:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Just _ A _ Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever ur doing is right! but ur love is build on frndship which has a great chance of blossoming. Trying to be more friendly and convince her through ur affection that she cannot get better man than u! then try a chance by expressing ur love in an elegant way to make ur dream come true!
all the best!
2007-10-08 01:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on her reaction , becuz that happened to me too , and we are still the best of friends.Also if you dont take the risk you will spend the rest of your life wondering whether shes into you too or not.Let her know in a very subtle way!
2007-10-08 01:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me, i developed feeelings for a friend and i never told him, he moved to another country and i later found out he may have felt the same about me. i will always regret not telling him how i felt. i have moved on since then too and i guess its too late for regrets, but i will always wonder what if?........
2007-10-08 02:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are your feelings, so, if you feel you need not tell her how you MIGHT feel then you shouldn't. If she doesn't feel the same then she may feel weird around you if she knows.
2007-10-08 01:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by h&t_oct282007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not o.k. U should tell them and maybe if u lucky she like u back.
2007-10-08 02:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by LipStickJunkie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry..i've been in the same situation...i didnt tell him-my friend that i loved him..i was afraid...and i'm alright now..
2007-10-08 01:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋