I was waiting until today (Monday) to test and see if I was pregnant, and Sunday CD 36 I got my period... NOOOO!!!!!! I woke with horrible pains!!! I am not pregnant... disappointed.... maybe next time.... this suc%^&%^ks!
2007-10-08 01:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by :) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you want to have kids, stop trying to make them and just have sex.
If you keep on trying to make it happen, and living in suspense every month hoping maybe this time it will happen, the stress will keep it from taking place.
Stop trying. It sounds mean, but its sage advice from many a former unpregnant woman.
2007-10-08 01:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sorry sweetie. I cant imagine how frustrating that is. Baby Dust t you. Keep the faith!
and don't worry about trying...just dont try too hard. Relax, enjoy sex, and try different things. Here are a few things that I believe to have helped me conceived the first try....
1) Dont use a lubracant even if it's advertized "no spermicide." I was told that even ones without it can hinder the sperm and to use Pre Seed. I ended up not using it and just lubricated with water.
2) Once you know when you will be most fertile (Babyzone.coms ovu;ation calander helped me with this) have sex every other day before your egg is released and then on your most fertile day. Take a rest from sex after for a little while.
3) When having sex missionary has proved best and I placed a pillow under my butt during sex and then after sex for 15-20 min before getting up to wipe.
Good luck...just remember to RELAX and enjoy trying.
2007-10-08 01:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really no how you feel, I want to take a test to this week Saturday but afraid of getting a BFN, I have pcos and I have been try for 4 years now with out any luck, I'll send you lots of baby dust that way and wish for you next month
2007-10-08 02:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have spoken to a lot of women who have conceived. Those that tried treatment found a lot conceived once they took a break from treatment and a holiday. A Good diet no smoking and no alchohol will help. I suggest you stop thinking of it and find relaxing things to do and you will probably find it will happen without you realising it. Have sex when you know you should be ovulating both befor and after. If your not sure check your temperature it will rise slightly when ovulating. Good luck
2007-10-08 01:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too! this happened today!
I'm gutted and I know how you feel.
But, onwards and upwards. today I've drawn myself another chart, I'm going to test my temperature every morning, use ovulation predictor kits, use pre seed, take clomid, take folic acid, avoid tea and coffee, drink green tea, stop smoking, eat healthily, exercise, make love every other day, get my hubby to go on top, use a pillow for under my hips and have a fertility spell!
Hell if that don't work I'm screwed!
Email me and we can get through this month together as it seems we have started at roughly the same time!
I know its a bummer but a bit of encouragement couldnt go a miss!
2007-10-08 01:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_steph27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i knwo is a bit dissapointing but that the consequences we face when ttc jsut keep tryign no matter what one day u will score good luck and try nto to get stress it will beharder then ::)
2007-10-08 02:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,good luck next month.
2007-10-08 01:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh sweetie.... It will happen when you least expect it. Sorry about the bad news. Mabey next month!!! Good luck.
2007-10-08 02:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by matty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when that happens .. but don't worry hopefully in 2 weeks you'll have better luck.
2007-10-08 01:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by ppL L0ve 2 hAt3 m3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! I'm sorry for you. Just keep trying. It'll happen at just the right time. God Bless!!
2007-10-08 01:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by angels_sign_ily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋