2007-10-08 01:05:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think its just fantasy, as long as its nothing physical I dont see the big deal. I know you can cheat in other ways besides sex, but if you arent getting what you need at home, and do some no physical things to make yourself happy so you dont kill yourself, I dont see the big fu*king deal!
2007-10-08 01:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. ANY form of sex outside of the marriage is cheating. They are doing something that should only be done with their spouse. It's sharing intimate thoughts and words with another person that's not their wife/ husband, when they are supposed to be totally committed to them in every way. If they're already doing this, who's to say they won't take it a step further? This couple needs to have a talk, discuss what is going on- why it happened, why the person is doing this, what's possibly missing, what can be done and, if needed, go to couple therapy/ marriage counseling. Trust may be broken, so this may take a long time to get over and work through and there will be a tough road ahead. All you can do is be there to support your friends. Provide some comforting words and wisdom. Give them the encouragement they may need. Good luck.
2016-04-07 21:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I delt with this issue a cpl of months ago. My hubby to be would chat, webcam and sometimes even call these internet "friends" when I would leave for doctor appts, or lameze(preggo at the time)These "conversations" were sexual, and at times"bad-mouthing"me. I started to get suspious when I came home early and he had nothing but a towel on, and the bedroom door closed. When he left for work, I downloaded a keyboard logger, and got his passcodes. After reading his offline messages, he was busted! He for 3-4months surely was having an internet affair. In tears in my eyes, and a lump in my throat I confronted him. He made all kinds of excuses, one being he was unhappy. In all modesty, I have been an A-1 great GF. Long story short, I keep a close eye on his activites online, and havent had aproblem since. I have forgiven him, but it still hurts. The answer to your question is "YES" it is a form of cheating. Ppl who "play" online, believe it is a harmless flirtation because it doesn’t involve any “physical touching”. However, the emotional pain and devastation to a once warm and loving relationship is just the same!!
2007-10-08 01:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by May-May`s mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, flirting, web camming, chatting in chat rooms you should not be in, talking to exes/ others on messengers or emails in a way you shouldn't, any sort of cyber sex, also... texting is cheating too... as well as pictures on the cell phone... anything that you know your spouse won't like you doing behind their back or with them knowing even is cheating... forsaking all others was the vow, this includes online contact... =(... I agree w/ a statement above me, fantasizing is cheating...too... when you are thinking of other people instead of your spouse! Also, just because your spouse knows about it does not mean they are ok with it... it's still cheating... why people put up w/ it, I don't know... absolutely awful...
2007-10-08 01:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If both of you know this, and practice this: then it is not cheating.
If this is something that you hide from your spouse, then in your own mind you know, and you believe, this to be cheating and ask the rest of us to absolve you of your sins. Very clever way of opting out.
Of course, what is done with words and thought, according to the bible, is just as bad in the eyes of our Creator, as the actual deed itself.
For you, the decision is all yours.....
2007-10-08 01:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by graciouswolfe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is anything that your spouse would be hurt by if he/she found out about it.
2007-10-08 01:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse knows about it, then no. Because you're on the up and up. I would assume that it would or is enhancing your marriage in some way???? If you're doing it behind their back and sneaking around to do it, how would you feel if it was your spouse who was doing it?
2007-10-08 01:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your having intimacy (any kind) with someone other than your spouse - it's cheating.
2007-10-08 01:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by malibustacey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. and who would want to have "internet sex," which is an oxymoron in itself, when you have your husband or wife right there for the real thing. I guess i'll never understand it.
2007-10-08 01:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-10-08 01:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋