I feel that my wife spends only 25% with me. I am not comfortable with in laws too. I feel I need another wife while I do not want to divorce my first family. If any woman is willing to be my second wife, is there a legal solution in India?
2007-10-08 00:49:58 · 18 answers · asked by kumar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What legal solution you are looking for such second wife in India? If you both are Muslim by religion then your second marriage will be absolutely legal & valid as per the Muslim Shariat Law. In case you are belonging to any other religion then your second marriage will be illegal & void in the eye of law. Although the children born out of this second marriage will be legitimate but such second wife will be illegal one. She may be getting your self acquired property after your death if you make a will with regards to this. With the recent few High courts & even few Supreme Court judgments she may even seek monthly maintenance from you & get that. The real issue here is not that her agreeing to be your second wife, but your first wife allowing this to happen. If the first wife objects to this, & make a criminal complaint against you for bigamy under section 494 of the Indian Penal Code, then mind you may have to spend your prolonged honeymoon period with this second wife behind the bars. Considering all these facts first study all these legal points before you marry a second time during the lifetime of your first wife without dissolving the marriage with her.
2007-10-08 01:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I'm torn to be honest...I used to be exclusively pro, and still dont have a problem with women who want to make this life decision. It's not that uncommon for a some college girls to pay there way through med school, by *********, webcams, or prostitution. However a lot a research has recently come out on this topic recently showing that, many prostitutes..dont have a choice. Many are where once child sex slaves, stolen from there families, not given an education, abused and put on drugs...what else are they to "choose" to do when they get to old for the pedophiles? be a lawyer? That I cant support..by any means.
2016-05-18 22:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... And two sweet mothers in law... great deal, dude!!
Come on, try to get to know better your wife, I am sure she would like to spend more time with you, but maybe you do not show any interest on the things she likes?
Give it a thought!!
Legally, you can only have 2 wives if you are a Muslim and your wife as well...
In real life, this becomes very hard, as due to the Koran you have to show the same love and respect to both of your wives and spend the same time with both of them, provide both wives with the same money and goods and so on...
Do you think you could cope with that?
By the way, maybe your first wife would get very angry if she finds out about your attempts and would spend from now on 0% of her time with you...
Watch out, dude, try to get closer to your wife and forget about these silly ideas!
2007-10-08 03:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As per law you can have only one wife at a time unless you are a muslim.
If any woman is willing to be your concubine, you can marry her as "second wife". If your wife comes to know about it you might land in jail or get a divorce from her.
2007-10-08 04:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would it not be wiser to build on the foundation of your marriage? You committed to take life's journey together which means sacrifice and joy in equal measure. If you take on another relationship your commitment to the first will diminish and it will be a millstone around your neck. You will end up having to deceive and lie to keep the 2nd 'wife' and your spirit will suffer. Having a foot in two camps will never bring you true joy and happiness you seek. You have a challenge set before you,; you need support to find a way to share a greater part of your wife's life and overcome the distance between you and your in laws. Do not take on another burden you will find too strenuous to bear.
2007-10-08 00:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by cairn4lodge 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi SreeKjd, Oh . and yes it is possible you can keep one more but it will not be in the same house, but in two different places. One is the original what you are keeping in your own house and other one is in your father in law's house (jail) In India you can keep another woman only if you have money or you must be an actor, or you should be a businessman or you should be a politician or you must be a brave man to fight with any situation. You are not SreeKjd , but you are Sree K.D.,Yours VRVRAO
2007-10-08 02:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You felt that your wife spends only 25% of her..of what (Time you mean?) did you try to find out the balance 75%...? whether she is working? or just wasting her time with family members other than you? or what? have you ever try to involve with her job? (if her job admit it)...or did you speak to your wife regarding your feelings of lonelyness?....suppose your wife agree to quit her job (If she is working in a firm)..do you have any plan to balance the finacial situation? ....if any?....
Please try to solve these questions..by asking yourself / to your wife...THEN take the decision....whether you need ONE more trouble ( ....I am sorry for using this word for equal to wife..) or not................all the best.
2007-10-08 23:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by 2bros 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow- u will have double headace with 2 wifes and 4 parents in law- think twice buddy
2007-10-08 00:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by unggoydk 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Karma is real. When you treat people badly, you get what you deserve. I hope your first wife cuts off your man parts and shoves them down your throat, you sick pig.
2007-10-09 05:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
R u thinking of gettiong more kids
2007-10-08 06:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Dhrbotara 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋