Am I under too much stress (list included in question)?

Question

1. I have 50 pounds to go
2. I have been in college for 6 yrs and have 1 year left to a Ba
3. I have to repeat 12 more credits I got an F in before
4. My mom legally blind and other health complications
5. I go to school full time, work 30hrs a wk, and the rest of time help my mom around the house.
6. She pisses me off because she doesn't realize that i am working hard so when I have kids I won't be poor like she was.
7. I am overcoming spending habits and excess eating habits because clearly I am trying to fill in voids.
8. The types of guys I like don't ever seem to like me and I am in that "what is wrong with me" state of mind. Hence why I am losing weight.

I am 24 year old girl. What will become of me?

And I have also stopped talking to my bestfriend because she lets me down every single time when i am always there for her.

Answer 1

I am so sorry to hear all your stress.
Your question. "what will become of you?"
I was surprised to hear that some how you are keeping it all together and you are still young. Do you have any help with your mother. Check with social services they may have the means for you to have someone come in a couple of times a week to take some of the burden off of you. You are continuing with your education to further yourself and to provide for yourself and hopefully children. You also have a job and already supporting yourself and mother. You are very responsible for your age and I am very impressed with all you are accomplishing on your own right now. You were right to distance yourself from a friend that is not there for you, but if I can say, friends are also hard to come by. Try talking to your friend again and explain to her how you feel and how you feel you have been there for her, you wish that she would be there for you. You may have to tell her exactly what it is that you need/want her to do so that you feel she is there for you. Give yourself more credit. It sounds like you are doing just "okay" right now with all the stress, and I hope you get the needed help. This is where your friend may be able to help, ask if she can help you with your mom or something else that you need to do around the house. What will become of you is a lot of great things, you are already doing the right things, but just need some help along the way. I hope you open up and ask for the needed assistance, don't wait any longer. Good Luck.

Answer 2

i think you are gonna be ok. sure your life sounds like a stressfest right now but you are asking yourself all the right questions and trying to do all the right things to make it better. you are doing better than a lot of other people your age. i think you will become yourself and it will be great.

Answer 3

You will be fine. Sounds like you are already taking control of your life. Good luck and don't worry..