I have this boyfriend that i really care about weve been going out for almost 8months now..
and im in my early teenage years
so i understand if people think were too young to be in a realtionship for that long...but id give up flirting and dating around just for him.
but the thing is, everything was great,
my parents trusted me, they let me go to the movies with him and over to his house..once.
and he was allowed over and we could go alot of places!
but then...
his parents friends saw us walking and kissing..
and they told his parents
and then i HAD to tell my mom
at first she seemed cool with it like yes i made a mistake but she wasnt going to make us break up.
but then the next day...she said i couldnt go anywhere with him anymore
just our house and school.
its been 3months since then and i have good grades and she still wont let us go anywhere...
what do i do?
2007-10-07 18:51:58 · 4 answers · asked by silkrose13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie,
Just give her more time. She hasn't put an end to you two. I'm sure she thinks you are going faster than she would like you to be doing. Talk with her. The more you talk with her, and the more she knows of what you are thinking and doing, the more she will trust you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-10-07 18:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i 'm a strong bel;iver in everything at its time.. if ur parents were ok w.u going out w. hm hm to begin w. then eventualy they will be ok w. it again. u just hv too prove that u can be trused. and u know i ws 17 when i 1st hd a real b/f and now that i'm 23 i wish i would hv held bk on sm stuff -- look at it as nothing bad comes w. out sm thing good to fallow maybee in a way they stoped u from going further then u were ready to go. just let thing go at its own pase and thing will just fall intoo place. if u realy cares about u then u will be patient about ur parent bng a little paranoyd. or u can spk to ur parent and ask what they expect of u now to prove ur self to them again.
2007-10-07 19:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by reyesd84 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mom's probably as new at this as you are and she is trying to protect you. If you want her trust don't do anything except see him at your house and school. And don't do anything too physical. The likelihood is that she will lighten up as you mature and demonstrate your maturity.
2007-10-07 19:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Or you have to convince your mom that kissing is as far as you are going to go.
2007-10-07 18:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by ihatelilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋