left him and the marriage 8 months ago, and he takes her back does this mean he is needy or still loves her in spite of the fact that he says hes not sure if he loves her. Shes back from travelling after leaving him hi and dry and wants to continue the relationship. He talks about them getting different bank accounts and waiting for her to "freak out" at any moment. I think shes using him to pay off her travelling debts and get herself organized with her everyday life and then she may leave him again. How fair is that? He is so wanting to be in a relationship with someone - anyone -, even a married woman he met in a club. He seems blind to the fact that his ex may disappear. do guys not have this in the back of their minds; the trust issue? Will his ex coming back work for him?
2007-10-07 18:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by Cafe au lait 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Igabbard, not sure what you mean by I've "answered my own question". If I knew the answer myself, I would not have bothered asking it! Please explain yourself.
2007-10-09 20:21:30 · update #1
I think he is aware that she may take off again - the reason for the separate bank accounts - but he is giving that another chance to work out. if this is a man you are interested in, he probably will be back to you when that doesn't work and you will never have to worry about him being faithful to you, but if he did not give her this chance now, he might always wonder. This way he will know and move on.
2007-10-07 18:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Sort-of.
2) Probably and it's not fair, at all.
3) That's crazy. And sounds needy.
4) Trust issue? Always in their minds.
5) Nope.
SEEK HELP!!!!
2007-10-07 18:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound like he need some help dealing with his lack of
respect for himself. you dont let anyone make you feel this
way, he need to learn to love himself, first,then this wont
happen he looking for lovd and really does not care how
he get it which is really bad for him she know that he
lacking that department and she going to use him until
she pack and leave him again. and trust me she will.
2007-10-07 18:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of does sound like she's using him.
2007-10-07 18:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man does that he will be done by her like that again that.s fact. my opion?
2007-10-07 18:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a flake always a flake.
2007-10-07 18:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by ihatelilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question read...... move on
2007-10-07 18:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋