2007-10-07 18:02:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her God told you to call off the relationship.
2007-10-07 18:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, your probably not going to like my answer but.. first I want to say I think your a creep for actually engaging the woman before you knew if you was the right girl for you.
Love and marriage isnt always about attractions. Most of the time the attraction two people share isnt always physical and it grows with time. If you just down right view her as disgusting then you made a big mistake by getting so involved that your on here trying to find a way out.
Be brutally honest and tell this woman that you made a mistake and try to spare her the details as of why your leaving her and hopefully she finds a better man who isnt dumb enough to get engaged to her then later say.. well sorry dear but your not attractive, and splits.
2007-10-07 18:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Needsto_getaway 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just now found out you aren't attracted to her??? Do her a big favor and break off the engagement. Don't go through with the marriage and end up hurting her in the long run.
2007-10-07 18:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by lillybreeze 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were not attracted to her, then why did you ask her to marry you? What brought you to her was no attraction, but what was in her heart. The saying goes, "You can't judge a book by its cover." Hope that made sense. If you are not ready to get married, then call it off.
Just remember this, you only ask someone to marry you ONLY if you love the person.
Consider reading "10 Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives."
2007-10-07 18:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call it off now. What does being religious have to do with it? You need to fix it before you get married and you are both miserable and you will be. Do the right thing for the both of you.
2007-10-07 21:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what does religion have to do with no being attracted to her?
how did you get engaged with a girl you are not attracted to?
anyways.. you know what you need to do..
you are not doing her any favors by keeping her hanging on.. you are not letting her find someone who will be totally in love with her.. break it off as fast as you can
2007-10-07 18:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by pastels c 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What would be the propensity for you to become engaged to someone to whom you are not attracted in the first place?
2007-10-07 18:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you expect to remain attracted to someone forever? Everybody gets wrinkles eventually.
What if you drop her for someone else, get married, then 4 years later decide you're no longer attracted to your wife? Then what?
Attraction comes and goes, and comes back again. You don't have to be attracted to someone to love them.
Make a choice, and stick to it.
2007-10-07 18:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by David F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Engaged is not married. Break it off before it is too late.
2007-10-07 18:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh, break off the engagement?
She will thank God she did not marry a liar.
2007-10-07 18:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by kittykatsback 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋