What are the indications wherein a person can find out whether his wife is virgin or not?
2007-10-07 17:45:27 · 18 answers · asked by Vijay M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her.
2007-10-07 17:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no one can ever detect if a person is virgin or no.. the hymen can break due to various reasons like excessive physical activity, sports , etc. hence you cant say if someone is not a virgin if she does not bleed and you end up being the FOOL. then there is a surgery which can attach the hymen so that when the person has sex the next time she bleeds.. but that does not mean that she is a virgin.and again you end up being the FOOL. so the best thing is that you ask your wife..I feel rather than putting your cave man brains on qts like this you better think of how can you keep the flame in your relation going.. and how can you be happy with each other.... that is wat matters dude..
2007-10-07 19:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by brinell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. I gave my virginity up to my wife even though she wasn't a virgin. Met her my freshman year of college too, she is older than me. I wasn't trying to save it for her, but after being with her a long time, I am glad she was my first and only. She always tells me she wished she had saved herself for me as well. Have more confidence in yourself too. I have been there as well. I am a 285 lb guy working maintenance at a school distric and playing saxophone at bars on weekends, so I used to feel she could easily find someone more "attractive" if she tried. But she has told me that she would never trade me for anyone, I am the best that she has ever been with. I bet your wife feels the same way. Follow Rae's advice and that should help with some of you "lack of sex" issues, those seem to be a problem in lots of marriages, not just yours.
2016-03-19 07:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear its better you ask your wife than to ask others like this .
but still you can examine.
if she gets a pain at intercourse and bleeds a little then she is a virgin.
but there are some women who are virgin but they do not bleed.so its better you ask your wife and believe her.
but you should not ask this question suppose if your wife asked you th same question than how will you feel
2007-10-08 21:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The presents of an intact hymen is a relatively good method but not absolute. If it's a big deal for you, and you're not sure otherwise, ask her. If you love her, what difference does it make?
How long have you been married? You should probably know by now I imagine.
2007-10-07 18:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by poolplayer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's really hard to penetrate the first time you have sex, and there's some blood, she most likely a virgin.
2007-10-07 17:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first if she told you she was then you should trust she is. and if shes not and told you she is not that shouldnt matter anyway you married her coz shes the women you wanted to spend the rest of your life with not coz shes a virgin or not i hope..
2007-10-07 17:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should he suspect a lady's virginity, how will a man feels if he was asked about his virginity.
2007-10-07 20:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by TUMU S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple. if penteration is hard and afterwayds there.s blood in the bed she.s a virgin if not she isnt pal that.s fact. my opion ? honestley...
2007-10-07 18:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell for sure. Not sure why it would bother you either way.. What's in the past is in the past.
Kent in SD
2007-10-07 17:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by duckgrabber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask her , but these will break her heart, coz her husband was actually care and love for the virginity, not her.
2007-10-07 18:26:26 · answer #11 · answered by moonrider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋