2007-10-07 17:18:45 · 25 answers · asked by SOMEONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
listen to your parents
2007-10-07 17:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by none 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be glad your parents set their rules until your 16 to date. Im already 16 and my mom wont let me date until im 18. But...I secretly have a boyfriend so she doesnt know =]
and yeah I think you should wait until ur 16 too.
2007-10-07 17:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 'going out' doesn't mean that you are going on the wrong way? Right?
Tell your friend that you're parents won't allow you go on a 'serious date' like that, but .... maybe you can see each other sometime in your school or shopping malls just to see each other and say hello (no problem with that, but not alone)
Just remember that parents only wants to protect their children and you have to understand that. (I'm a mom, too)
Be a good girl, you will not lose anything ... 'just gain good thing.
I love you, girl.
2007-10-07 17:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by always confuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, recognize that your parents are smart people, and probably wouldn't put a restriction on you without a reason...
You have two options here, one being to talk to them. If you approach them like an adult, and tell them that though you respect what they want of you, you feel you are ready to date. Use examples of times you have acted responsibly, and remind them of what a good kid you are. If you can show them you are responsible, and will make good, smart decisions, they might be more likely to consider a compromise. If they still decline, than you are better off holding out until you are 16, because disobeying them seems like more trouble than it is worth.
2007-10-07 17:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by jkme85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you met this guy at school. Hang out with him at school and then talk on the phone when you guys aren't at school. But don't sneak out and see him or anything. That will just anger your parents and get you into trouble.
Listen to your parents, they have a good reason for doing this, but you probably won't understand until you're older.
Wow, I really sound like an old fart.
2007-10-07 17:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by SoMunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have three choice's follow the rules your parents care enough about you to impose or.....
You could get a job, pay rent, pay for your phone, cell phone, internet, computer, school supplies, buy your own clothes, get your own food, do your own chorus etc etc etc and do what ever you want or.....
Go behind their back and do it anyway which in the end would only solidify the reasons for their request in the first place. If your not mature enough to deal with this in the open then how could you possibly be mature enough to deal with this relationship in the first place...
2007-10-07 17:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by hydrogen_peroxide_usp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be worrying about dating (ok ok, if you are 15 maybe). The only thing a boy can give you that one of your girlfriends cant is... well... if I have to tell you, you definitely don't need to be dating. So spend more time with your girlfriends and worry about dating a little later.
....or get a webcam and virtually hang out. Don't tell you parents I said that. =P
2007-10-07 17:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by dynastronii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey as long as you are living under their roof you are to honor their wishes. the are just looking out for your safety. you should be proud that they love you so much that they want to protect you. When you are at your age you think you are an adult. but believe me I know. I wasn't allowed to date til that age either. I am so thankful now. There are so many thing men think you should allow them to do to you. but they are wrong. There is plenty of time to date later. just prove your self in school and keep your grades up. That would be the adult thing to do. I know it is hard being a teen, but be strong and God Bless you. Love your parents for their decision. You will thank them later. Hugs to you.
2007-10-07 17:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out til you're 16. It's really the only answer. Be friends but listen to your parents. Probably not what you want to hear, but really it's the only answer.
2007-10-07 17:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Devin B 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your 16. Your parents know what they are talking about.
2007-10-07 17:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen to your parents, they DO know best. why not wait until you're 16? if you respect your parents and show you can be trusted then they'll do the same for you....just a thought....
2007-10-07 17:45:18 · answer #11 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋