You talk about what is important to you in a relationship, .... Like a man with a full head of hair, six-pack abs, .. Money..... What about a man who is average, but is kind, supportive, caring, a good friend and lover, putting his woman first , providing a strong shoulder when she needs it, hard working ... Oh !! And btw.... seems like those women who are so choosey end up with the worst partners in the end ... huh ?? Lighten up, ... girls !!
2007-10-07 16:44:16 · 23 answers · asked by Raptor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in a good relationship, guys... I am not talking about myself here .... this is a general observation I have seen on this site.. duh !
2007-10-07 16:58:30 · update #1
Oh, btw... I have never been rejected by a woman (yet) lol .....and I am quite affluent, too. I am not the man I describe in my Q.... trust me.
2007-10-07 17:01:35 · update #2
Sigh ..... I have Not been burned, guys !! READ the Q !! You guys take everything waaay too personally ! I am not talking about YOU !! hahaha !!
2007-10-07 17:06:52 · update #3
Not all women are like that, and I'm sure you know that.
I'm lucky in that I found a man who has it all. And I think other women who truly love a man, no matter how he appears to the rest of us, will see her man as wonderful in all ways. That's what love does to you :)
2007-10-07 16:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Um .. you should reword this one because not all women are shallow, though you should remember that a lot of men fall in that catagory also. I don't consider a full head of hair, six pack abs, money, etc ... a guarantee for a good man. The qualities you mentioned tend to become more important as a person matures and realizes the important things in life.
2007-10-07 23:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by squidsgirl97 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Even the average men can be scum bags. But you're right, some women are shallow and have really high expectations on the physical aspects, so in turn, most of them end up with jerks.
2007-10-08 05:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id trade my man for the man who is average, but is kind, supportive, caring, a good friend and lover, putting his woman first , providing a strong shoulder when she needs it, hard working any day.
2007-10-08 02:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not like guys who has six packs, and hair, can be grown back or cut off, so that does not matter to me.
I like the average guy. a man who works hard, who is there when I need him. I'm sorry you picked a shallow women. I guess you must be one of those guys who always end up with women who abuse him. sorry.
2007-10-07 23:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You've never been burned or faced romantic rejection before? Then you must be young.
I concur with Green, an inherent part of approaching someone involves taking risks. You need to have more confidence of yourself.
2007-10-08 00:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by mrblonde3056 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What about a man who is average, but is kind, supportive, caring, a good friend and lover, putting his woman first , providing a strong shoulder when she needs it, hard working ... "
Sounds all correct for me except for the average. I consider him better looking than average-handsome infact. I am just glad all the others gals saw him as average so he was single for me...
What about him-married him-leave him for someone else to have?-think not!
2007-10-07 23:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I married a man whom I love. I love him all with his faults. I love the whole of him. He has grey hair and not a 6 pack. I still think he is attractive but I love him more than just the physical. I am not traditionally beautiful but he thinks I am. And that is all that matters.
When you fall in love, attraction builds.
2007-10-08 00:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine then that you are looking for a mature, average, kind, supportive, caring friend and lover, who puts her man first and provides support and works hard to keep him happy? Those are the ones you pass by for the young hotties. What goes around, comes around.
2007-10-07 23:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The way you posed your question seemed a bit insecure, defensive and whiny. Sorry but it makes me feel as if you're one of those "nice guys" who need more confidence in approaching a woman, and are a bit passive. I had a friend who was desparate for a girlfriend and kept going on about what a loving guy he was. He didn't have much going on his life or friends, and kept hitting on me. A good heart and concern for others, warmth, confidence, a friendly personality and being engaged with the world instead of waiting for someone to make life happen, will make you really attractive.
2007-10-08 00:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by green 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋