people where asking!! so hear it is..?

Question

ok so my last Q sead I was caught making out in the hall with my bf that no one knows I have ... I don’t tell because my mom wont let me date till I’m 16 and I am 14 so if my mom or sis or bro ever comes to pick me up I don’t want some one saying something about him and also he really is not all that cool not that it matters cuz I am not cool 2 but that’s why I don’t tell
and as a 14 year old girl I know I don’t wana a kid with no daddy or just a kid even with a daddy so don’t say your mom just does not want you to get pregnant so yeah that’s why
AND because this is yahoo answers hears my Q is this wrong to you that I am dating and not telling any one???

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071007201749AADWCEV&r=w

Answer 1

Hi, I can understand you not wanting to cause friction between your self and your family and therefore not wanting to tell anyone this is prefectly okay as long as you are safe and not going to get hurt. However you shouldn't lie about where you are going and who with incase something happens, its one thing to want to keep him to yourself but another to be in a dangerous situation ( if it ever happen) and have no one know where you are or who you're with, make sense?
Also if you really want to be able to go out with him stress to your mum that you are friends and wait til youre 16 to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend if you think you could do that. But you should be careful because even though you have good intentions you can't guarantee that they wont find out anyway,