First, off, I'm not gay, and mutual masturbation IS normal, I know that for a fact. My friend and I masturbate together a lot while we watch pornos. I just don't get why guys think it's so gay to do it - just becasue you do it, it doesn't mean that you're gay. A plethora of teenage guys do it. Anyways, I am a little concerned. My friend thinks that one day we should shower together...I don't think that we should...I think that would be crossing the line a little too much...because I'm not gay, and if he is, that's fine, I don't care, I'll still be his friend, it's just that I don't want to fill in that part of his life, because it's something that I'm not. I need help please! mature advice only, please!
2007-10-07 14:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sean K 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Straight, gay or what ever, if you do not wish to shower with him then don't.
Dude, no offense, but this is a "no brainer", just tell him you enjoy your mutual j/o sessions but that you do not wish to carry it any further then that.
One word of advice though, the more you protest that your not gay, the more other people may think that you are! So just drop the "I'm not gay" bit and just tell him your not interested in taking this any further then where it is at.
2007-10-07 15:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your friend may be gay...or may just want to experiment "being closer" to another guy. If you're not into him in "that way", tell him. If you're masterbating together you should be close enough friends to talk about your personal comfort levels regarding relationships.
2007-10-07 15:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you wouldnt feel comfortable taking a shower with him and you think that would be overstepping the 'friend' line.
he shouldnt mind being told the truth but maybe he is getting the wrong impression from you when you masterbate together.
when me and my bf do that we get very turned on by each other and maybe he feels like this and is in fact gay..?
good luck anyways x
2007-10-07 15:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule with sex is: if it makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to do it. It doesn't matter what it is. If taking a shower with your friend makes you uncomfortable, then say no. Your sexual partners, be it masturabatory or whatever, should respect your boundaries just like you need to respect theirs.
2007-10-07 15:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont think that it's gay when two people masturbate with eachother. if you're comfortable with that, then thats all that matters.
but like you said, i think that if he wants you to shower with him, that's crossing the line.
but again, if your're comfortable with it, go for it.
2007-10-07 15:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to stop wacking off with your friend in the room. While it's not necessarily abnormal, it's not all that common.
If your friend is gay and you do not want to have a sexual relationship with him, it's time to stop wacking off with him in the room.
Getting naked and aroused with another generally leads to sex. If you don't want to have sex with him, it's time to stop wacking off with him in the room.
2007-10-07 15:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't see why not. i mean, you've seen each other naked before under sexual circumstances. showering isn't even a sexual thing. but if you don't want to, you don't have to. you don't HAVE to do anything you don't want to.
2007-10-07 17:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tyson J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE JACKS OFF WITH THEIR FRIENDS. IF YOU ARE NOT GAY YOU SHOULDN'T BE DOING THIS. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR FRIEND IS A HOMO
2007-10-07 16:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dave & Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋