people get upset at me for thing that i do or do not do and a try my best to make everyone happy but it always comes up that they are mad at me for stuff i dont mean to do and i dont know what to do. i dont mean to act stupid sometime but it cant be helped all the time and when i try to do thing right it always comes out wrong. and even when i dont do anything thing at all or i let someone else do thing i am the only one that gets blamed.i try to keep myself strong and not cry and i try to listen to all my family i am just one person and i dont know what to do can someone plz tell me
2007-10-07 14:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi mie moon,
You know what your problem is? You care too much about what others think of you. You try to make youself pleasable & likeable that you're beginning to lose the real "you". I always believe in the saying "damn if you do, damn if you don't". There will always be people disagreeing with you & not liking you. That's facts of life. But when you move away from "being yourself" to "being someone else"s guy", then it is the surest way to live a miserable life. Remember the more you want to please others, the more they will be harder to please. Stop thinking about what they will think, stop trying to please everybody at everyturn. Go back to being yourself. Believe me, those who comes to you for "who you really are" are the real friends you should cherish.
2007-10-07 14:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by BERNARD C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to cry reading this. You are so much more than just a "person" you are something special. Just try to be careful with the things that you do. Remember it ain't about what everyone else thinks of you it's about what you think of you.
2007-10-07 14:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by LiLAnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I've read about that in a book and the author said there: You can't control other people's mind or feelings towards you which is true and I do believe on that and my piece of advice to you: Don't pleased everybody, pleased with God because if people don't understand you, God knows exactly who and what you are and he understand and accepted you because for Him whatever you do; you will always be special......Pray and have faith in Him everything will be in good terms........God will always be beside you no matter what........
2007-10-07 14:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Beverly Anne N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be tough trying to please everyone else, but thats exactly the problem, you need to do things for you and seek your own happiness, it's good to take advice and listen to others but in the end you have to make the choices that are best for you.
no matter how hard you try you will never please everyone, but you can always be sure about what it takes to please you.
make goals and go for it, don't let anyone tell you different, you are who you are...enjoy it, thats what makes you special.
take care
keep your head up and smile
2007-10-07 14:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to evaluate your life and see why these people could be mad at you and if there isnt a reason then you should just do what you think is right and stay withint he limits that your gaurdians set for you and you should be just fine!!
2007-10-07 14:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always tried to be liked by everyone and its never worked out --- do what you think is right for yourself and dont worry what other people think --- as long as you dont hurt anyone then keep doing it ---- best wishes
2007-10-07 14:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to please everyone. You can't please all of the people all of the time. Please your self and others will follow
2007-10-07 14:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Moe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋