after having my son who is now 9 month i total lost my sex drive but now i am into it alittle more,before being pregnant i had a high sex drive and so does my partner of 4 years,we do it often but sometimes i just cant be bothered or just dont want to do it is there anything that could help me want it more?
2007-10-07 12:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
force yourself to think about it more. When you think about food you get hungry and it's no different with sex.
2007-10-07 12:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lollipop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you describe is VERY NORMAL. Don't think that there is something wrong with you. Nature intends that you bond strongly with your baby to insure his safety and nurturing. This can make things difficult in the romance department. A nice way to deal with the problem is to realize that your sex life is probably not going to be like it was because it will have matured, just like your attitude on your family now that it has grown. You and your partner can arrange a romantic "date" for just the two of you. Your son can stay with a relative or other trusted friend who will care for him so that you can focus on you and your partner. Make this a special time for you two. The more of these "dates" you can schedule for yourselves, the easier it will be to resume a romantic and sexy relationship. Just know that there are three of you in the family now and that means new concerns and new ways of thinking about your time together. You can get there and you will. Good luck!
2007-10-07 19:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by peachyone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! After having my son (13 months ago) I was still all about the sex, and just the past 2 months I have kinda been losing my sex drive. I think its from being tired from chasing him around all day tho!
Best of luck to you!
2007-10-07 19:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Whammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mommy syndrome lol actually thats true some people after having a kid are not into sex that much because they have a stressful day witht the child. try to find something that gets you {horny} something like porn, or watching your partner strip or maybe stripping for him. im 23 got married last year and it makes me horny to wear something sexy like a g-string or thong and then hump my partner and then take my clothes off!!!
2007-10-07 19:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea have him and yourself do lots of foreplay and if that doesn't help see a Dr. maybe soimething when haywired when you had the baby.
2007-10-07 19:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
viagra for women, porn, soft nite of romance?? I don't understand this effect, but it sure is hard on us men!! And then , they wait for their chance to call us cheaters!!!
2007-10-07 22:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, why dont you make it very relaxing and romantic.....that such be able to help somehowâ¥
2007-10-07 19:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try xxx movies
2007-10-07 19:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by shaun s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋