my new boyfriend doesnt satisfy me at all he doesnt give me oral or anything he just likes to get straight into it and get it over with i only found out last week that he was a virgin the first time we did it so i thought that could be the reason why. but we had sex again a few days ago and it was exactly the same im not really with him for the sex but if anybody has any tips on how to make him last longer and perform better id be grateful. x.x.x.x
2007-10-07 10:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him and tell him what you like to do and ask him if there is anything he'd like you to do for him. If its only his second time, I think you can cut him some slack... But don't just lie there and complain afterwards, Talk to him.
2007-10-07 23:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by silverfoxdmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have to talk to him and coach him through while you are doing it. He obviously doesn't have a lot of experience, so you can't expect much.
He sounds like he is just happy making sure he climaxes and doesn't know that you need it also.
The only way you will be satisfied is if he is trying to get you off first. I have had many ex's and almost all of them have had multiples every time we did it. The secret - I
had the mindset that I wanted to please them and make sure they got off first. I would do as much as I had to, to make that happen, and usually it did. Most guys are selfish lovers and that is why a lot of girls don't experience an orgasm.
2007-10-07 18:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna have to suck it up and be nice to your young student. Tell him how you like it while you are doing it not before but right in the act. When he does a good job tell him. Dont lie though then he will think that he is doing something right. If you dont want to take the time to teach him then walk away.
2007-10-07 18:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by aimlynsmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with him. Ask him what he wants and then TELL him what you need. Guide him, if necessary. If he's not willing to satisfy your needs this may show an overall lack of concern for your feelings.
2007-10-07 17:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like, what you want him to do. The more practice he gets the better he will be. Be encouraging he's bound to be nervous say things like i really love it when you do _____ or why don't we try ____. I'm sure he'll be gratefull for the tips!
good luck
2007-10-07 17:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by mzp21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are stupid and thats comeing form a boy.haha just tell him how its done how you like it talk about it. boys are very visual when it comes to sex thats why they like porn. girls are mentaly stimulated thats why they like oral. dont just ditch him its what only his second time just talk about it dont be shy i promise good will come out of talking about it
2007-10-07 17:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried going down on him and asking for reciprication some blokes especially virgins don,t know how to please a woman unless they have a picture drawn for them personally i consider oral to be the best part now you,ve just got to convince him
2007-10-07 17:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds as if you will be the teacher!! You should be able to teach him it all!! Thats a big job, but the benefites are all yours!!! CONGRADULATIONS TO YA
2007-10-07 22:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on him!!! show him how you do it!!!! don't be afraid and do what you have to! take your chance and use it.
2007-10-07 17:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by darknarutogirl4567 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋