Should I divorce him?, because hi doesn't want to have sex with me. We only have sex once a month or none.
I don't want to because we already have a baby and I don't want to give my son a step-father. I think I don't feel attractive to him anymore for rejecting me so many times.
2007-10-07 08:01:33 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to help heal the marriage, talk to your husband about it, and get him to agree to go to therapy with you. You might also consider that he may have someone on the side. There is a child who needs both parents.
2007-10-07 08:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First try to exhaust every resource you have before you try to play the divorce card. He may simply be depressed, or ill. Maybe he is using too much weed or alcohol. In that case he needs treatment.
The bottom line is you made the commitment to be with him "for better or for worse." Read a few more questions here and you will find you are getting off (no pun intended) easy with the for worse part.
Besides. The needs of you child should always come first.
Did you know that ultimately you will not be judged on the commitments you make, but rather the commitments you keep?
Good luck.
2007-10-07 08:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow!
I feel for you. But it's not about giving your son a step dad.
What you need is to feel valued, loved and respected.
What he is doing to you is killing your self esteem and self confidence and it will kill you slowly inside too.
So, the remedy is for you to feel better about yourself, and then, don't you worry, the answer will be right in front of you.
First of all, you need to get a life, I mean to have some interests of your own. If you don't have the means, use your marital status to get yourself pampered on his card.
New hairstyle and new outfit. Trust me, this will so boost your confidence.
As for the self esteem, you'll see, if you look better, you're bound to feel better and one thing leading to another, he will either get interested in you, or you will not find him interesting any more and will want better for yourself.
It's very simple.
So, stop the beaten dog act, and get some actions done.
You're more likely to attract his attention or the attention of someone who's worth it. And I don't mean to have an affair.
Only, you may just realize that you had been wasting your time in that marriage and that it might be time to move on.
Good luck.
2007-10-07 08:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he has something on the side if he can go that long without sex. maybe he might be gay too. yes get rid of him u don't need that kind of headache. good luck to u.
2007-10-07 08:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why divorce? Do things to make you feel good about yourself. Men find confidence in women a turn on.
2007-10-07 08:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like either of you want to do it, so why can't you just live together and be happy with each other?
2007-10-07 08:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
married 25 yrs was in same boat email me and i will tell you how i resolved it
2007-10-07 08:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally agree with you lady, sex is vital part of the relationship....
2007-10-07 08:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋