ok we been together for 7 years, he moved in with his then lesbian co-worker 8 month ago who had her girlfriend living with her then. we had some problems at that time. he came back to me in july for 4 days to move back to her . i was heart broken and worked on the fact him being gone forever.yes i did ask him to come back.he came back 7 weeks later he stayed 5 weeks i thought we will work it out 2 days before he left he told me he was depressed but had nothing to talk about. i came home from work to find a dear john letter on my counter. he told me he tried to love me like before it wasn;t the same and that i will find some one else
he finnally told me he is in love with his co worker / roomate .
my question is why did you come back if u in love with her and put me trough this again? i don't believe him wanting to try i think him and his girl had a fight and he just came back.
he told me he loved me just 2 days before he left my a... again.
i feel so betrayeld .
2007-10-07 07:17:04 · 12 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dysfunctional is a perfect description of this affair! Is that what you want as a foundation to a possible marriage? Yes, he is right, you will find someone new, and it will be so much better, as long as you forget this dude. Never bring him up in a conversation with potential suiters. "That" will scare them off about "your" personality. Oh, and if there are kids involved, you need to make sure that he is responsible for their care! Leaving like this is typical of guys who have made a girl pregnant and changed their mind.
2007-10-07 07:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*My dear, you must face reality.
*You say that ,after 7years together, he moved out on you, and moved in with a (lesbian) co-worker. He comes back to you sometimes(READ;when he and the Les., quarrel )and immediately goes back to her after enjoying the shelter,
warmth and ofcourse the goodies you carry on your person.Are you so gullible and such an unloveable person that you continue to subject yourself to such humiliation??
*Now you must turn over a new Leaf of yourLife'sstory;Delete this good- for -nothing joker/user from your Life.
*Someone more deserving of you will come along and Love you and cherish you the way you deserve to be.
*Move on sista, the grass is definitely more appealing in the other pasture.GOODLUCK.
2007-10-07 07:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just wasting your time and you are allowing him too. Let him go in your mind and heart. Move on with your life I know it is hard to do, but not impossible. Your question shouldn't be "is he going to come back again?" You should make the statement "I won't let him come back again."
2007-10-07 07:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you don't let him come back again. You deserve better than that. Move on and find someone that deserves your time and love. Take care!
2007-10-07 07:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss...... this could be the best thing to ever happen to you, take it as a blessing in disguise from God...thank the Lord you dont have kids involved....focus on you!!!! You dont want that kind of drama.....pray about it...good luck
2007-10-07 07:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have bee betrayed and lied to. The questions is why do you want him back?
You are a beautiful woman who deserves better!
Good luck.
2007-10-07 07:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this jerk! He loves you when it's convenient or he's wanting something on the side. Otherwise he doesn't give a hoot!
Move on with your life. He's not worth it!
Look out for you!
2007-10-07 11:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by J I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately it may feel worse before if feels better.
please dont let this stop you from loving. even if its yourself.i had to learn that maybe i may not get closure or even an answer i can wrap my mind around.. thats life i guess
2007-10-07 07:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by aquisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves this girl but she is gay. He comes back for sex because she is not giving him any. Find someone who will put you first.
2007-10-07 07:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - YOU need to get a backbone. He's treating you like shhh ........ Don;t let him carry on like this. I'm sure you are worth more.
2007-10-07 07:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋