Who's fault was it?

Question

In your last relationship or marraige, who's was to blame for the departure? Was it a nice split.. or down and dirty?

Answer 1

Takes two to make a marriage/relationship work. One to make it end, meaning if one isnt willing to make it work then obviously its going to end

I have been married twice first time was in 1992 we divorced in 1994 we divorced because he could not accept our daughter after we had been in a car accident that left her profoundly handicapped. It wasnt until he made nasty comments regarding her and her life that made me want to rip his head off. Its been over 10 yrs and I do not like him not because our marriage didnt work out but because of how he was in regards to our daughter

In my last relationship I ended it found out EVERYTHING he told me was lies. Wasnt "down and dirty" just simply told him I wanted nothing to do with him, and we went our own ways

Im married now but you asked so Im tellin

Answer 2

I'm in the middle of a horrible brake up at the moment.

One of us is definitely going to die if we stay together, but neither one of us is willing to pull the trigger.

I'd have to say, even though I love him, and I can certainly be a holy terror, that it's really his fault.

He's an impossible person. He lies, he is deceptive, manipulative and selfish. He resents every good thing I do. Sometimes I think he hates me.

As far as the actual split is going? Well, he's in the hospital at the moment for taking a handful of pills, and drinking himself unconscious. Although I'm really pissed off at the moment, I think I need to NOT act on it at this point, as his situation is delicate, and I don't want to be the cause of further dangerous behavior.

I don't talk to ANY of my X boyfriends. I don't agree with it. You split up for a reason, keep it that way. Also it's not fair to your new partner when you have one.

I have to say though, that when it's finally all over, he's the only man I've ever dated that I would consider ever being friends with afterward. We knew each other for 10 years, and worked together before we dated, and he's still the funniest person in the world.

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Answer 3

I don't think it is ever one person's fault exclusively, cuz it takes two to make or break a relationship. And sometimes you just grow in different directions as you get older. When we split, it was as congenial as possible, after 16-1/2 years of marriage and we remain friendly 14 years after the divorce.

Answer 4

I've only been married once, so far, and we are in the process of splitting now after a 25 year relationship. Nobody's fault as it turned out, just want different things now. It's very amicable.

Answer 5

I do not think it was a question of whose fault it was - more like being two highly incompatible people who stuck it out for a while and eventually "saw the light"...

It hardly ever boils down to someone's "fault"... it is more like the pattern the relationship ends in does not work well enough to keep at it...

Answer 6

I left my ex-boyfriend because he's got a serious drinking problem. I've tried to stay friends with him, but he can't seem to accept the fact that I'm not at his beckoned call anymore so I've gone ahead and cut off contact with him. Hope that helps.

Answer 7

it was my fault. i couldn't handle the family tradition of being beated up and dragged around the house.
the split wasn't so bad until he realized i actually wasn't coming back. i think he finally realized it when i got married and pregnant. this was 3 years later.

Answer 8

Neither one of us was very mature. We split peacefully.

Answer 9

there are three sides to every story
his
hers
the truth
unfotunately no one knows all 3 at any time (except god)

Answer 10

My Husband was, he got on drugs.... and it was down and dirty....